Five(5) steps to be taken if the child is misbehaving
Hi stemian, today i have issue five(5) steps to believe that every child is good and has a positive potential to develop optimally but we also need to consider the background of each child because each of us is a unique individual. 
Here are 5 steps we must do that is:
1. Family background is
the greatest contribution to school-aged children.
The family here, can mean a biological family or other family in which he lived together so far. Families that I am harmonious have a great tendency to form unhealthy children how to adapt to the environment, whether at home, school, or other social environment. Families with permissiveness or all-out (authoritarian) parenting have the possibility that the child becomes difficult to control himself or difficult to control. hence, the obvious rules and consequences of the beginning of the nature of discipline in children.
2. Appreciate Feelings, very important to do.
Children tend to feel valuable when we understand her and her feelings. That's where he feels his existence and acknowledged his existence. Appreciating feelings can be started by not doing the following:
- Judging.
"you always make trouble"
- Compare.
"try first, like Andi, he alone can" - Accuse.
" You hit first?" - Underestimated.
"never mind, you will cry" - Give a sign.
"is a bad boy, can not be advised"
The three most important things must be conveyed, namely:
- our feelings because of their behavior
- his behavior
- due to his behavior towards his environment and himself.
"Convey as often as possible of our expectations to him through my message."
3. Gifts, need to be given to convince him that the child has done the right thing and is fun for the environment.
Gifts can be things, praise, congratulations, a tap on the shoulder, a hug, or anything that expresses that we reward him.
4. The interaction is warm, it needs to be constantly woven, not only in the classroom, or in the school environment, but visiting the house can be done, that we really pay attention to it.
When children have strong trust in us, and are confident of our sincerity, they tend to be cooperative, want to tell us what their problems are. Well that's where we can shape it for the better.
5. Have reasonable expectations, it is important to have, so we can be more patient in waiting for changes in our students.
That each child is unique, and has his or her own way of learning how to adapt to the environment.
Thus the ways that can be taken gradually, may we have the power of the heart that is able to keep our graduation in educating these children, so they feel it too.
By @sanne
Really an insighting post. Thanks a lot. Background is key for child's training.
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