Let the change begin in you

May people see in you the change you want to see in them. If you blame the government for poverty, injustice, turmoil and lack of peace, you are not helping anyone. You are just blaming. Real change starts from you. It starts by exercising your rights to vote responsibly. Real change could also mean crying on the streets against injustice and joining certain people who share the same conviction for media to hear. If you want violence to stop, try to be an exemplar of peace. Develop inner peace that influences those whom you meet. If you want improve the lot of the poor, teaching values to their children or educating the parents is a good start. Do something other than blaming.

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 Do not confuse blaming with changing, acting or doing.

What you see is largely affected by who you are. You have a certain way of looking at things. Joy is so hard to find when you are in great pain. Nothing seems to be working when you are feeling bad. Indeed, you get who and what you are. When you are in ecstacy, you see more reasons to be ecstatic. You attract fantastic individuals. When you are upset, everything and everyone is so upsetting. The world is dark to someone depressed. The world is enchanting to someone happy. You see the world as bright or bleak depending on who you are. It is not about the experiences per se but on how you choose to see these experiences that brings about joy or sadness. You see things as you are. The choice is yours. Either you see the problem or the opportunity that it presents; either you see the failure or the potential success that it can bring. It depends on what you want to focus on. Usually, you get who you are. If you what to see more happiness around you, be happy. Be the person you want to see in others.

What you see is who you are. If you change, the way you see things will change.

GAIN FROM PAIN
If you are in pain, it’s time to do something different, unless you enjoy the pain. Don’t be surprised. There are people who enjoy living in pain. At least, they get sympathy from people. Or, people would not expect too much from them. But I am telling you, there is a better way to handle life than simply by getting comfortable with pain. Some people will not go to the doctor unless the pain becomes so unbearable. Similarly, some individuals will not change the way they think until they could not endure the emotional pain they feel. It is but normal to experience pain and it is human to get to hurt. We are not machines. Robots don’t feel the way we do. We get jealous. We get angry and sometimes we become violent. It’s normal to feel pain but it is not normal to remain in pain. When it is mine to forgive, forgive. When it is time to reconcile, be reconciled. And when you get stuck for so long in a painful condition, move on.
Allow you occasional pain to change you. Without physical or emotional pain, people hardly change. Pain gets our attention to improve our situation. Be aware of the need to change. Without this awareness, you cannot have the first step to progress. If this need is truly significant, it will never stop reminding you through various circumstances. Experiences will never be lacking for you to become more aware of the need to change. Write down simply and clearly what you need and what is that you really want.

CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVES

The way we perceive the way we act. When we look at the mirror, we either see ourselves as attractive or ugly. Similarly, in life we either see rain as something that refreshes or ruins our day, a stepping stone or a stumbling block. Sometimes we don’t have to change things but how we look at them. People will see what they want to see. Many of those who claimed they have seen a ghost have actually seen more. Do you want to bring change in your life? Change the way you perceive. One thing many people do not learn at all is that problems, difficulties, hard situations, calamities and suchlike are only learning moments and blessings in disguise. They can become opportunities for us to be more creative, patient, enduring, flexible or humble. They force us to change and do something different. When we change how we perceive them, we change the way we deal with them- and usually, we get better results.

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