Moving on from feeling Stuck #7 Don't be so pessimistic
The realist pessimist
You might know this sad pattern already.
You start thinking about an upcoming event. You start thinking about all the things that could happen wrong and how to fix them. You go on and on until it all becomes too much and you start questioning if you even would like to attend said event.
Yes, all you have thought about might be real problems that might occur, but are they really that realistic? Will they all happen at once? What about all the good things?
With a pessimistic mindset we often only think about the bad. We try not let it change our feelings, but inevitably it might happen. It's good to think about problems and solutions, but we should also think about the good that might happen to counter any mixed feelings we might get.
Do most of your fears ever realize? Mostly not. So stop panicking, relax and let things happen.
Change your mindset
What would it be like if instead of freaking out at problems and such we started embracing them?
Wouldn't it be more interesting. Get surprised by the things that can go wrong and the creative ways you fix them.
Overcoming challenges instead of avoiding them.
/sulev
Great words, thanks.
Sounds like a sound plan. Face life head on.
yup ;)
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My pleasure! Have a good day!
Once again I like to say congratulation for your new reputation.
Pessimist becomes the enemy on our life, because it comes first before work hard.
For mindset, think everything positively then you will get the positive feedback. Even me personality could not do that in complete form.
My Warm greeting for you, and thanks for sharing the valuable massage. :)
Thanks! have a great day!
Once again I like to say congratulation for your new reputation.
Pessimist becomes the enemy on our life, because it comes first before work hard.
For mindset, think everything positively then you will get the positive feedback. Even me personality could not do that in complete form.
My Warm greeting for you, and thanks for sharing the valuable massage. :)
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