People are so quick to judge others faults, but never quick to point out their own.

in #life5 years ago

What is being judgemental about others? Judgemental is a term that uses for a person who assumes something about others, that in most of the cases is false. In today’s global world, people are always ready to pick negative points in others instead of focusing on what are they doing and what are their faults. You will see the blaming game is on when two friends are sitting in a coffee shop and commenting on other people, two women commenting of other person clothing at some wedding and so on.
The behaviors are changing, and people started to judge other people faults, but never quick at what are their faults. Judging other people faults did harm them and make them what they are it just shows your mentality and what type of personality you possess. Usually, people cannot see a person working better than they do in every sphere of life. The judgment is sometimes made on very small issues like if someone is delayed on a job, or how someone is talking to another person and many others. However, sometimes these judgments are also made on a bigger issue like if some child is talking to parents aggressively over something in a mall, all the people around him will consider him a bad boy.52C97113-13CD-43F0-9802-CD0C6B9145C4.jpeg
There is a need to stop these passing judgments behaviors to look upon that anyone even we can make mistakes or faults in life. If you see someone quarreling with some other person, find out the reasons behind this behavior. Do not start assuming things by yourself and create a bad image of other people. Place yourself at the place of that person who is quarreling to check, if you were in this situation, what will be your reaction.
We know that being judgemental is a natural behavior of humans and it is hard to stop or overcome this behavior. We are so indulging in picking other people faults that someone we may not realize that we are passing negative comments about some other person. But one can try to stop this habit. This can be done by having a positive thought about someone or at least a neutral one. Many of us are struggling with life problems and difficulties at this time. Some people find it hard to hide the feeling, but some will do at their best. Therefore, the people that are not able to hide show their emotions by their behavior. Try to handle these people with love not by passing judgment on their actions. Because somewhere in life you also lack few things.
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Finally yet importantly, you maybe sometime show judgemental behavior because someone is not behaving in a way like you do because someone did not love in a way like you do, etc. every people has its own style of doing things. If someone did not like to show their body, do not label them as conservative people because you consider yourself modern while wearing short blouses. If someone not like the food you like to eat, then there is no harm. Everyone has a right to live according to their choices. Whatever you like, limit it to just yourself and do not impose on others.
It is understandable that leaving negative thoughts from the mind is not so easy, but do not give up, keep trying, and one day you will succeed. Always remember that if someone has some faults and you are perfect, then these perfections also came from facing many faults in life.

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