No one can give you the life you want except yourself
I don’t know whether if you have seen such a scene, a boy racked his brains to prepare a very romantic confession scene, what type of flower to buy, is it her favorite color; how to prepare the gift, as well as the confession lines. He may have rehearsed in private countless times, and also pulled up his friends to witness, And even colluded with them to help him with the surprise.
But when the heroine appeared, the imagined scene was not the same, "you can’t give me the life I want", so all the romance and good become bubbles in front of everyone, like a bubble floating in the air, burst by itself without anyone touching it.
“You can’t give me the life I want.” A familiar and incredibly cruel words, absurd but powerless to refute. We are all living blindly, every day looking both busy and tired, but nothing has been accomplished. What you want is stability, but you chose the floating, restless life. You like the challenge, but keep on complaining about the challenge.
Do you still know what life you want in the end? In reality, the desired life is nothing more than two kinds, material life, and spiritual life. Material life is easy to understand, eat whatever you want, buy whatever you want, go anywhere wherever you want. Spiritual life is also not difficult to understand, in reality, watching a movie, watching a drama, participating in various activities, listening to speeches, reading a book is also considered as spiritual life.
Whether it is material life or spiritual life, a lot of times it revolves around the eternal topic of money, as long as you have the money, these are easy to achieve, but the key is that money is the biggest problem. Do you come from a rich family? If not, can your salary support your current life?
It's obviously not possible. Can you easily get rich overnight from the lottery? Certainly not. To reach the life you want, no one can help you except by your own efforts. We can't choose our own birth, and we can't choose what kind of family we are born into. Because when we are still in our mother, the gap has already begun.
Some parents already teaching the baby before born, and some parents, can’t even solve their food and clothing problems. Some children are born with a golden key, spend hundreds of thousands every month, don’t have to worry about anything, the life full of green light.
But some children are miserable, because of the family conditions, don’t have a fix living place, even the basic nutrition also can’t be guaranteed, it is easy to start malnutrition and infirmity as a child. Some families because they don't have the money to pay for their children's school and living expenses, some children have to quit school.
But this is not the most deadly, even if you want to learn, it is hard to get over the mountains, many people tried to survive in the big city, but most of them are just a passer-by, it is difficult to have the opportunity to take root in the city, sooner or later they still have to go back where they came from.
However, other than work hard, they have no other choice, not to say that it is difficult to have an opportunity, there is still a chance.
Everything has a bipolar, some people did work hard, but in the end is still back to the original self. Everyone has a chance, it depends on whether you work hard, whether you can seize the opportunity, whether your hard work can give yourself the life you want. If you don't want to try, or you don’t want to achieve what you want with your own efforts, then you have another chance, that is to get married, after all, a lot of times, it can give a lot of people a second chance to choose fate.
It is unrealistic to fantasize about to change your destiny by marrying into a rich family if you without any effort, even if it comes briefly or does exist, it's fleeting, and you can only find the life you want if you work hard enough, and that's the harbor you're settling in and the most solid sense of security.
You want to be a millionaire in the ghetto, you have to work your own, because the big things that change your destiny, you can only do it yourself, others can’t give to you. You have to work hard to live the life you want, you have to work hard to touch all the good things you fantasize about.
Otherwise, you will only be overshadowed in the corner of no one, and then continue to carry the brick hard, continue to pray for God for the fortune overnight.
Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://walkinharmony.vornix.blog/2019/01/14/no-one-can-give-you-the-life-you-want-except-yourself/
I very much agree with you when referring to material life and spiritual life, and both are equally important to me. I think the ideal is that there is a balance between the two, since obtaining the material goods necessary to live is as important as cultivating our faith and being able to manifest our emotions in a healthy way. Greetings.
Hard work forges the character, is the reality, when people do not work to get what they want they corrupt.