Your endurance is beyond your imagination
After graduated for a few years, I’ve made a lot of friends, but friends that are still in contact are very few.
And one of the female friends, I admire very much. Two days ago, on the way back to her house, we had a meal together. That day, she chatted about something that had happened the night before:
She said she had quite a lot of things happening lately.
Her family has been involved in a debt storm, she needs to collect information online every day to ask for a solution.
And the night before, she and her boyfriend quarreled again because of some misunderstanding. This time, she finally can't stand her boyfriend's cynicism, run away in the middle of the night.
Not only that, her company has also recently been giving training, every day has homework, need to spend at least one hour to complete it.
And she went through all the things in one day.
What was most unbelievable to me was that the feeling she gave me this day was passionate, positive and doesn’t look like she being affected by these things.
It's hard to imagine that a more than 20-year-old girl after experience all these, still can be so calm.
Imagine a man experienced such a thing, the state will also be affected, or even the next day will take a leave and settle own things first.
I was shocked at that time and asked her why she can be so strong.
She smiled faintly and said, "After you been through a lot, this is just a piece of cake for you."
In fact, later I slowly understand what she meant.
After all, she was someone who been through a lot.
She was five years older than me, went through a lot of bumps, spent a few years in a company, did a great job, and even started her own business, but she quits for some reason.
Perhaps for her, what’s going on now is just little things.
So, I guess this is growth, moving forward in the experience of pain.
In fact, maybe after a few years later, when I encountered similar things, I can also be as calm as her, because time will give you a lot of growth.
Those we thought we couldn't make it, in the end, we will find ourselves still going to make it. Because you never know where your limits are. Or I should say at different ages, your endurance and mindset are different.
Some of the troubles I encountered as a child, in today's view, are simply not worth mentioning.
During junior high school, seeing all the senior study hard for college, feel so tired.
But after college, we always miss this feeling;
During freshman year, seeing those seniors who were busy studying or looking for a job every day, and felt a little scared every day.
And when graduate, found that able to study in peace is a wonderful thing.
With the same concept, now, perhaps you meet some difficulties or setbacks that seems to be the hardest you ever met. But 5 or 10 years from now, perhaps, you will easily solve it.
So, don't look down on yourself, don't be afraid of the difficulties of the present. Because you will find that there will be greater challenges waiting for you. When you can't even overcome the current difficulties, how can you overcome the challenges in front of you?
So, do it and stick to it, and you'll find that you're stronger than you think!
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