Do not Say This to Husbands

in #life6 years ago

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When arguing, of course we are overwhelmed by emotions that make us difficult, can not even think clearly. Because that's when our emotions are difficult to control themselves. There is only the desire to vent anger, one of them through words.

However, while arguing with your husband, feeling any emotion, you should still be in control. Do not make inappropriate speech to the husband. As a wife, you are obliged to respect the husband.

In addition, harsh words will not solve the problem. Instead, it will add to the heat of argument with her husband. Reported from Boldsky, to keep household harmony, should avoid saying these seven things to the husband.

  1. "You and your father are the same!"
    If you want to criticize your husband for anything, share it directly without comparing with others.

  2. "When do you want to find a job?"
    If the husband is unemployed at home without work, simply remind him of the household's financial condition. Do not immediately ask him to work.

  3. "Mother warned me about you."
    Even though your mother has warned her about all men's mistakes, you should not say the words "Mother warned me ...", "I know this will happen," and others to the husband.

  4. "Go you! I do not need your help."
    When a husband tries to help, if you drive away with harsh words, he will probably never offer any more help to you.

  5. "You never ..."
    When something happens, if you start blaming the husband by saying "You always ...", it will have a negative impact. The husband will feel accused for no apparent reason and he will surely try to defend himself.

  6. "I do not like your friends!"
    Instead of flattering all his friends is not good, try to be more specific why you hate a particular friend from the husband and try to explain the negative effects if the husband remains friends with his friend.

  7. "Do not do it, do not do it ..."
    Be careful, if you overrule your husband and often tell him to do things, he can get bored with you. Every now and then may give him instructions and instructions, but only when necessary.

Thank you infinity to @whalepower @bullionstackers @mysteem @goodkarma @estellereuh @paul-gillbanks @dragonpower @dholpin-power @busy @busy.org

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