WHY We Need To Say Sorry????

We often hear the term "Unfortunately I'm not too weak to apologize".

The question is, does the apology signify a weak person?

When the tongue feels stiff and it's hard to just say a word of apology, we may be in the process of being arrogant.

When we realize there are words that may offend other people. When our attitude may have hurt others. And even the heart justifies we have offended or hurt. But why, when it's so hard to say sorry? Is it Prestige,? Is it Arrogant? Or maybe something is wrong with our way of thinking. Only yourself knows the answer.

In the life , of so many characters we meet. Among the many characters, we occasionally find people who are arrogant just say sorry. Flies? Maybe not. Perhaps he wanted to make himself happy by not being bothered by the affairs he considered insignificant. This is not wrong. He just wants to find his happiness without feeling guilty. Yes ... because feeling guilty will not make you sleep well.

But have you ever wondered what if we were in the position of someone we had hurt? In fact we realize we have hurt him. Still remain arrogant and as if nothing happened? Is that arrogant? Is it selfish? Just because you want to make yourself happy to forget if we are social beings who must respect each other.

Know the apology can be a form of appreciation for someone, feel himself means. It's as difficult as just to make a person feel valued and assumed to exist.

On the other hand we find people who are so easy to say sorry? Is this the so-called weak part?

No! Because not everyone who first apologizes is the wrong side. Absolutely not. When an apology is pronounced to reconcile the heart and extend the ropes of fellow humanity, avoid disputes. He is the winner who succeeds in lowering his ego.

People like this are so clever at peace with their hearts and feel the calm. When he feels there is a fault or his attitude is wrong. He does not burden his heart with such guilt. He releases it by apologizing even when someone does not feel hurt. He's just scared. Afraid if he hurt someone else.

Anyway an apology will make us better and peaceful. When we grasp ourselves a mistake and keep it in our hearts. Until whenever we will remember it. Although not now maybe later, tomorrow or the day where everything looks so clear when we reap what we plant. And at that moment there is no chance to say sorry.

Apologize is not just just uttered. A good apology comes from the heart, saying it sincerely. Regret and process for the better. Not only because forced and in the heart there is still a sense of reluctance.

Sincerity comes from the heart and who knows sincerely or not the words or actions that we do only ourselves. All back to yourself. One more, all the consequences will not run away from the cause. Appreciate a meeting, friendship and relationship. Because nothing will ever be lost from the memory. There is always learning from anything we encounter if we look at life with a policy.

Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.
~ Paul boese