Not Everyone, Contributed By @Olawalium
We have often allowed the reality we have seen in the world and the reality we have heard overtimes to infiltrate our hearts and we always feel that is how everything is or how every human is. We should never generalize what we have not always experienced.
Yes, we have come across those who are into us for the money but that doesn’t mean every lady is into you for the money. Maybe it has a lot to do with how you try so hard to impress them. Maybe when you start dating the lady, you already think she is for the money and you do everything to impress her and due to lack of your genuineness and being yourself, she got bored and left.
You have always dated guys that have been abusive of you and it is normal to assume every guy is abusive. You found another guy and you tried to push him beyond the limit to see if he is abusive, which is not fair on the guy. We all have our breaking points and you should try never to box people based on the opinion you have of the society.
I condemn those who are into others for the money and the sick guys who couldn’t keep their hands in check and even their mouth. I want everyone to know that not everyone is after your money and not everyone is abusive. Often times we find what we have been exposed to overtime. If you think everyone is after your money or abusive, you tend to attract those kinds of people. You need to keep an open mind and know not everyone is the same. The same way we find those who love to give us flowers and they left and we want every guy to also give us flowers. We have different love languages and yes, if you love receiving flowers, let him know and allow him to adjust. It shouldn’t be hard to do if the love is from within and you are both willing to express yourself.
Because you haven’t seen one doesn’t mean people like these don’t exist. Keep an open mind and stop boxing people into what you think the world should be or is. Your exposure is your reality but with an open mind, you might attract someone different from what you have always experienced.
Thank you for your time.
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I'm not surprised when I see people acting weird, I never used that to judge, some would frown their faces as if they were being wrong or fought. This is always happen if checked, liken to how they are being brought up. We shouldn't let our experience or what has happened to us cloud our judgement on others people. Which is why we have to learn healing from our past before venturing into any relationship if we want such going to last forever.
Absolutely! We need to pick lessons from our past and justify it with the present and trust out inner mind to get to know people before judging them and putting them in the "general" bracket of "Everyone is the same"
Well done, brother.
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