When love is being built, the union will grow, but when the trust of love is being broken, the spirit will be broken.

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The foundation to any relationship is base on trust. When you build your union on trust, you are building a solid foundation that can never be broken. When trust is broken, assumption comes in.

Once upon a time, there were this couples that were supposed get married to each other. They were so in love with each other, they don't look at what other people do. But the girl in question have a very closed female friend of hers. Anytime she sees this her friend's relationship, the kind of love they share, she gets jealous, unknowingly to her friend that her best friend is jealous of her relationship, she tells this her friend about her love life. When ever her spouse buys anything for her, she takes it to her best friend, display to her what her spouse got for her. She love this her best friend and took her as her sister. But when her friend discovered that her friend is succeeding in her relationship, she desired to be in her position and became more closer to her in other for her to achieve her aim...

She started caring more for her friend, pretend to love her more than she love herself. When her friend discovered that this her best friend is so humble to her, she decided to introduce her to her spouse, saying she's her friend and also her sister, that she placed strong confidence on her friend that was why she introduced her to him, being that her spouse trust her judgement, her spouse had to accept her as a family friend, that she's free to come to the house anytime she wishes*****

When love is been broken two things are involved, either hatred or forgiveness. When trust is been broken two things are involved, either you trust or not to trust again. When jealousy is at work, two things are involved, it can kill and it can also protects.

LOVE:

Love is so sweet when there is no third party. An adage goes thus: "Many waters can not quench love: And love is blind" but if wisdom is not applied, love can be destroyed easily. When you build your love on the center of jealousy, then love is not blind because jealousy have a voice either to destroy or to protect. The kind of jealousy that protects is the gentle one, when you have that kind of jealousy it proves that you are in love.

Take for instance, you have not seen your spouse for a week and you see other couples working together displaying love, you get jealous over them, placing yourself in their position, the next thing you, you desire your spouse, then you pull a call through...... Make your spouse need you over the phone and prove to your spouse how jealous you. This gives them inner joy to know that there is love in the union.

The kind of jealousy am talking about is the type when your spouse is over open to friends, and doing that you are not getting the attention you needed, you tried to cope with the situation, instead you find yourself getting hot, and you desire more from your spouse, you find yourself in an emotional trauma. When this happens, know that you are in love.

The story

The friend decided to be nice and very good to both of them. As time goes by, secretly her friend buys gift, sneak it to her friend's fiancé, appreciating him for taking care of her best friend. She then introduced her best friend to her man friend in other to cause problem in their union. She planned with a guy, exposed her mission to the guy, got a photographer ready. She told her best friend she have a date and beckon on her to accompany her, she agreed. As they were having a good time, her friend excused herself and left the two of the all alone, being that everything had been arranged, the guy went closer to the girl and kissed her, main while the photographer took a shot of the scenero. Thereafter, her best friend worked in and pretended to be mad at the guy.

Two days later, as this two lovers were having a good time together, a guy worked in and gave her spouse an envelope and left. When he opened the envelop, he found a picture of a guy kissed his fiancée. Her spouse played a mature role by asking his fiancée if she has been cheating on him, she was so angry at the statement. Then he asked if she has ever kissed a guy that he's not aware of, she said no. Hearing that, he became heart broken, hatred and assumption creped in.

Her spouse then confined on her best friend to know if his fiancée was cheating on him, she said been the fact that you have been nice to my friend I will tell you the truth because my conscience has been condemning me all this while. She opened her mouth to tell all sort of lies. His hatred increased. Anytime her fiancée goes out, he assumes different kind of things in his heart, then turned his attention to her best friend.

Woooph!
In other for you to secure your union with your spouse, don't involve third party because when third party is involved in a relationship, there is bound to see the unexpected because you don't know the heart of man.

"The heart of man is desperately wicked, who can know this?"

When you expose the secret of your relationship with your best friend, know that you have betray the trust of that union. If anything should happen, blame it on yourself because it all started from you. When love is being betrayed then hatred steps in, so don't betray the one you love by hiding a vital information from your spouse because you are not the only one that knows about that secret. You can only keep to yourself that secret that you did not tell to anyone but secret that is been exposed to someone is not a secret. If she had told her spouse about what happened when she went out with her friend, she would have been able to secure her relationship.

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A little secret can destroy a lasting union.

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