Love is it?

in #love6 years ago
Love is a beautiful thing and as beautiful as it may be, also very deadly, unpredictable, unfair and wicked, but it is love. Yeah, Love oh mighty love.source
The idea that someone can live their lives without love is seriously wrong and laughable. It is impossible and ridiculous. Love happens in various ways and that includes our love for money, cars, flashy things, exotic vacations, beautiful women and handsome men. Yes, beautiful women and handsome men!

I Feel Blessed!

How do you get to know that, that person you are with is the one? How do you become comfortable living your life with that person you are with and stay happy? Often times, we hear someone gush that they cannot live without that person in their lives and you wonder why that is. You wonder how they are able to know they are in love and also how long that will last.
Love is hard and it places a burden on you when you decide to ride it. The urges to lie or cheat has to be suppressed and in most cases completely destroyed from our heads. We must be seen by our partners as doing the right things at all times and also living in line with our commitment to love.
I have loved, lived love and presently loving and I find it hard sometimes to explain the process, but I know it feels good because, I feel good. I know people will be people and also, there will be that moment when all we desire as individuals loving others, is to know if they are the right ones for us. Do we fit together? How do you know you have found that one? I mean, it can just as well be a lust, infatuation and flirty airwaves that seems to make us do the unexpected.
I have seen lots of stories of people who told the world that they loved themselves and will never leave each, only to end up dragging themselves in the mud in the eyes of the world.

A Story.

There is a story of a young lady who after giving 3 years of her life to a guy in a relationship, ended up getting dumped and as if that was not enough, the guy got her best friend pregnant and immediately proposed. The lady couldn't believe it because, the same guy made her abort 5 pregnancies in the period of their stay together.
Within a month, the guy went on to marry the lady's friend in a lavish party attended by the high and mighty and they lady not knowing what to do after becoming the object of ridicule, took the easy way out for her... death. She took her life the morning after the wedding.

Love, Oh Love.

Love is wicked as it is beautiful and only time will tell how truly committed to ourselves we are and may be. Time is the measure of love and it allows us find the thing that truly exists in our heads and hearts.
No one can be free from the pains of love and no one can say for sure where their lives will be in a relationship, but, there is a surety that love conquers all and has the ability to set aside the good and the bad.

Love all, trust with care and hate no one.

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Wao! I totally love today's post too. I love everything because it is a reflection of actual reality; things we pass though on a day to day basis. Love is one of the complex thing have tried to understand times and over but it takes time. You never really know a thing for certain.

We humans make mistakes a lot, we don't look before we leap. Also, we don't understand that love is more than just feelings and it takes more than just a single sided love to keep a relationship. I have heard people say to me often times as regards their girlfriend "we will grow to love each other with time", i believe like would have been the right context to use, even when two male friends see each other often, don't they grow to like each other?

How do you know you have found that one? I mean, it can just as well be a lust, infatuation and flirty airwaves that seems to make us do the unexpected.

All facts stated in the post is correct and i have had a fair share of what love can do. In fact, without love, there is no beauty to our existence. Without love, we feel empty and alone, confused and all that is before us will lose purpose.

Don't people commit suicide because of love?

Very true. Love is two sides of a coin, love can make or mar, love can heal and the same time, hurt. So, it is better we stay on the right side of love and enjoy the goodness, happiness and joy it brings.

Am sure a lot of people needs this awesome perspective to help them exercise enough reason before they fall into the web of love. Love is beautiful.....a beautiful and peaceful life, is a life surrounded by happy people with genuine love.

Stay blessed @ejemai!
Stay blessed everyone!!

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Oh wow, this is a lesson and I had to read the comment again including the poem and I am glad you shared. Love is a beautiful thing and makes the world a better place when it is shared.
Stay awesome!

Oh!! Who has broken my dear @ejemai 's heart hahaha.
Love is blind, love is sweet and also wicked but we must not seize to continuity of love one another as ourself.

Love all, trust with care and hate no one.

That’s the solution! Love shouldn’t be exclusive to some, love is a blockchain.

@ejemai, it’s been a long time.
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Love is tough, wicked

Love has so many definitions and its unpredictable

This was beautiful sir. Love not money makes the world go round for me..

This was beautiful
Sir. Love not money makes the
World go round for me..

                 - mosunomotunde


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