Can we live without Sex

in #love6 years ago (edited)

Hi Steemians

Living totally without sex is strange for some people, although there are many people in the world who don't like sex but still have it at least once in the month or even in the year. When we are so preoccupied about having sex. We just keep craving it the whole day, week, month. We dont focus on other important things, but thinking about it. That way we cant be happy at all, but feel stressed and miserable, because we keep feeling the frustration of wanting something that we can’t have. Once we have it, we start looking for an another source of happiness. A different kind of pleasure, because happiness is from inside and not related to anything external.

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The most religious communities believe that sex is a sin. Therefore, children who are born within this doctrine and environment are much more likely to be happy without the need for sex. But it doenst mean that they never think about it. Whatever is forbidden is always wanted. The desire for sex brings people out of their shells and forces them to find strategies to successfully attract and maintain sexual contact with those they find attractive. For most people, being with the opposite sex simply lets them conform to society’s expectations and provides them with a sense of stability.

Why sex is necessary in life:

  • It burns calories
  • Increases immunity
  • Reduces stress
  • Relieves pain
  • It helps in balancing the hormones
  • It helps us sleep better

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But life without love and sex isn’t meaningless and empty. There are many people living alone, enjoying every moment in their life without being needy. Now a days the internet is overloaded with sexual content, our movies and advertisements. Sexuality became a tool to attract people and make money. Teenagers and and even old people became obsessed and the most of them cant even have a real relation out of their room and "laptop". Lack of sex became a big problem for them and they lost confidence. There are others who decided to live a spiritual life and reconnect with the source or the Divine. Feel an intense feeling of ever increasing bliss that makes sex seem totally insignificant and unsatisfying.

As much as women love being around other women, being around men is even more exciting because it forces us to act, think and feel differently. Interacting with the opposite sex provides us with a valuable outside perspective on ourselves and our life. Sexual intercourse and intimacy carry a variety of meanings for individuals. The majority of people believe that sex plays a huge role not only to their physical lives, as well as in their overall happiness. But we definitely don’t need somebody by our side to live a meaningful life.

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Part of who we are. Besides it feels good. :-)

Absolutely!

For me personally, sex without love doesn't interest me much. I feel it leads to the wrong relationships, because you might stay with someone for sex but miss the real long lasting love because you were busy with some temporary physical pleasures

Me too! I need to love someone first to start thinking about sex.

I'm 37 so I hope my next relationship will be my last! Before I started to paint I was a very different person. I was working in jobs I hated and used weekends to drink and go to bars a lot to forget about the stress, and that Monday would come soon. Now for more than 6 years I don't drink alcohol anymore, and I'm focused on building my own art business that I really enjoy. But working from home does make it hard to meet people lol

It is true! Somehow I am facing the same problem. Working from home and meet very few people lately. I think thats the life of 40% of them people these days, as everything became easier online. Even Dating!

I am one of those people who really love sex, now still not the time to make love with the opposite sex. Because I can not marry that woman yet. Ha ha.

Love, from me to you :) :D

Thank you Dear! I think thats the best time, when we are in love and just dreaming of that moment to come. We stay always happy and full of energy. Day dreaming all time :)

Your welcome, honey. Love anytime :)

Sex should be the most inner connection to Love or it will be the deeper void in our souls. As Tao it could be in any state or stateless and it’s ok even when percieve it as wrong or bad.

The true problem resides in the definition of Love itself and how we relate to IT outside and inside.

One feel Love inside oneself and the can share that feeling with other selves, like breath, Love has to be lived but never possessed...

Gracias @argecar ...
La gente suele pensar que soyun poeta (y algo de eso hay) pero realmente sólo trato de definir la realidad que vivo (o anhelo cuando no alcanzo) lo más honesta y sinceramente que puedo.

Si suena lindo es porque la Vida es belleza además de bella

Bendiciones <3

me caes bien jajaj un placer tenerte

He de decir que me inspiras... lo cual dice de ti que tienes una linda energia.

Tu también eres un sol y lo sabes!
:P

Indeed! Love is the most beautiful feeling that is keeping us alive.

Relationships with love and sex are interlinked.Nowadays, we are busy online some of them try to find a love partner but it does not get.

Thats true, that why the most people started going on Online Dating Websites lately.

Really nice post
I learnt a lot from this
More grace

I am glad you did!

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