Name the basic secrets of having a long-lasting relationship?

in #love5 years ago

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Everyone desires a long lasting relationship but not many are willing to put in what is required to make that happen. A relationship is made up of two individuals and it requires the effort of both parties to make it work. A long lasting relationship is one that has tested trials, pains, love, fire and many others but yet, remain strong. I have seen relationships of 10 years and above still thriving. It doesn't mean there haven't been issues but learning to overcome the issues despite all that happens is what matters the most.

Here are some of the factors that determine a long lasting relationship:

  • Communication: Communication is the bedrock of any relationship and if a relationship must thrive, the communication between both parties must be consistent. A relationship without constant or consistent communication may break off easily. How do you intend to survive when you don't communicate with each other?
  • Trust: Trust is one important factors and ingredients for a long lasting relationship. Both parties involved in the relationship must trust themselves if they want the relationship to last long. Having trust issues can lead to break up as either party will have issues with his/her friends of the opposite sex.
  • Love Reminder: A friend once told me that her boyfriend hasn't told her he loved her in the past 3 months and she is beginning to doubt his love for her. This got me thinking, we all need that reminder, assurance that the person we're in a relationship with still loves us. Let your girlfriend or boyfriend know how much he/she means to you.
  • Shower Gifts: It is thoughtfulness to present gifts to your partner at intervals. The gifts are not meant to be expensive. Little gifts of love go a long way in showcasing that you were thinking about him/her.
  • Loyal: It takes loyalty to have a long lasting relationship. If you are not loyal to your partner, they also may not be loyal to you and this could lead to issues in your relationship.
  • Forgiveness: It is important to note that no matter how much you try, a relationship may not always be rossy. There would be issues, disputes, disagreements and it requires a heart of forgiveness to thrive through. Learn to forgive your partner and curtail his/her excesses.

A long lasting relationship requires patience, perseverance, faithfulness and many more to be successful and enviable. It requires time and effort, the question now is, are you willing to pay the sacrifice?


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