Why do most people in relationships tend to cheat?
The Cheaters tend to actually cheat because they really feel they have a need that is not being met..well I know that may really sound like i am excusing cheating, but i am not...Most cheaters that i have seen often have a deep-seated insecurities which they have not really expressed.
They actually have not truly asked their significant others to really help them because they are so afraid of actually being vulnerable. ..They also have not actually learned to really trust their significant other.... They have not really resolved to truly be a great partner to their significant other.....
welll As a result of this, they tend to find the relationship to be deficient. They will begin to pretend to themselves and to the others that the deficiency is actually not with them but it is with their significant other, but in reality it is with themselves, and also deep down they actually knew that... They also truly know, or at least they fear, that this actual need they have would not be met by anybody else either.....
So they begin to actually test the waters with some other persons instead of them committing fully to their relationship.... They really dip their feet in the shallow end instead of really jumping head-first. They will begin to find the new “relationship” to be exciting and really fun, but they know it is actually just fun because it is actually not a real relationship, and they tend to find real relationships to be suffocating and also scary,,
The irony of it is that if they actually did jump into the waters with their current partner, they might really find the lasting happiness with them, or they might really discover that it would not really work, but either way they would really know. i totally believe that The piece that is missing in such relationships , that do really make them feel that an actual need is not being met, is actually "the lack of commitment", and also the exact lack of the commitment in the relationship is what really allows them or made them to actually cheat to begin with....