True-Love is not just about romance

What images come to you when you hear the term True Love?

Admit it - many of you picture romantic scenes, kisses, and hugs, couples hold hands while gazing together at a setting sun; perhaps violins play at the background as well. Some memories take you back to the day you got married when ‘love was in the air’. You remember the wedding dress, the music, the guests; you see a clear picture of your loved ones, the romantic vacation you spent afterward during which you looked into the future with excitement and hope. No doubt, that way to perceive true-love is commonly accepted by most of humanity nowadays.

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However sweet, cute and lovely that picture of true-love may be, it is definitely not the TrueLove that I am speaking of here! A part of it, yes, a small fraction, but surely not the core. Here's what I mean:

• First of all TrueLove is a state of consciousness, a matter of being. It is independent of outside scenarios or circumstances and as such, it can be achieved and experienced as a regular state of being regarding any “human” character that you may feature right now, that are age, nationality, gender, education, look, color, financial status etc.

• Secondly, TrueLove is something you grow to and not something you work for. You cannot create TrueLove from inside the system itself that is, you cannot work your way to TrueLove, like you look for a job or explore for your next vacation place. Many people ask “So, what do I need to do to get myself TrueLove?”, and they do not understand that that is exactly where they have the biggest obstacle – they still think they can DO something to have TrueLove.

Do you dream at night? Of course, you do. We all do. Do you remember your dreams or even farther, do you remember your dreams while being in the dream itself? Don’t get discouraged if you don’t. This is not important at all. The point is, the same way you train your consciousness to explore your dream-world, you can train it to master the world of TrueLove. The key-principle is being, not acting. Allowing, not doing.

• I will tell you a fact that may shock you: finding a life-long spouse is not the issue, it is not the purpose; meeting your True-Lover is not the aim here, nor anywhere. It will happen, don’t worry, but what really matters is You, and the way you change on your journey, and what you will become on your path. This is what TrueLove is – Your transformation from humans to a fully empowered creature on earth; you will change the course of your life so eventually you will not have just the limited version of true-love but the grandiose and superb variant of TrueLove.

• And then, from your vantage point as the creator, you will be able to choose exactly what you will want. Will you want to experience a long-life TrueLove relationship with one partner - then so be it; will you want to experience many TrueLove relationships with other TrueLove spouses, then so be it; and should you even choose to ‘go back’ and experience a dualistic true-love – you are the creator and so be it.

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TrueLove puts you in the center. You matter. You are important. Whereas true-love has always been about two halves who meet each other and live happily ever after, TrueLove now is about You meeting you and ultimately meeting another individual who will also have met him/herself, so you two will be able then to genuinely live infinitely ever after.

If people ask you: “Do you believe in True Love?”, ask them in return, to what version of True Love are they referring to. If they fail to understand and open their big round eyes explain to them. You will be surprised to know how little people know about love although it is the oldest notion and most spoken topic on the planet.

TrueLove is about freedom because as a creator you can have any type of relationship that your heart desires. You can have any type of partner that your heart desires. You do not need to rescue any princess that awaits you sitting in a chamber up a tall tower; you are not required to struggle to make other people happy and satisfied; you do not need to work hard to have TrueLove. Money will not buy it nor a good look. Smooth words and witty intellect may only initiate the first contact but soon you will need to prove that you are a TrueLove free spirit.

And here perhaps lies the biggest difference between true-love and TrueLove. The former speaks about attachment to each other while the latter breaks the dependency, calls for disassociation and necessitates freedom. You will become sovereign wholes that experience the fluffy-kitschy romantic stroll on the beach because you choose it, not because you need it. You will choose a candle-light dinner with your loved one because it is who you are in the moment and not because such an experience may revitalize your dying relationship.

There is a big difference, friends, between true-love and TrueLove so pay attention to what kind of love revolves your life.

A whole heart can never be broken