The Seventeenth Episode of Let's Talk About it with @oluwatobiloba. What will make a woman proud to say her husband beats her?

in #love6 years ago

Hello, amazing readers, it is with great pleasure that I welcome you to another thrilling and mind-blowing episode of let's talk about it with @oluwatobiloba.
I am so honoured to have you around gain this Saturday, I must confess that the love shown to me by amazing friends who have continued to support this programme have been the reason behind its constant success and I want to really appreciate your constant love and support, may God bless your good heart for me.

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RELATIONSHIP QUESTION FOR THE WEEK.

This week's episode is going to come in a different phase and I am excited about it, but before we go there, I have this question to ask.
At what point in a woman's life do you think she will get used to the fact that her husband beats her, is it a crazy idea or something that is normal?

The reason why I am asking this question is that, I found myself in the midst of some women last week and one of them was telling her clique of friends about a man who has refused to pay for the goods he purchased from her and to my surprise she bluntly said, as a matter of fact her husband had beaten her because of that money.
I thought I did not hear her well until she came to me again and she said, aunty I am telling you my husband actually beat me because this man refused to pay the money.
I stood not knowing what to say, and since that time I have not been able to get it out of my mind, I know of women who get beaten by their husbands but what they do is try to hide it away from people and pretend that all is well with their home.
Seeing someone who said her husband was beating her with so much pride is something that has not stopped amazing me, is it that she enjoys the beating or what do you think the reason could be and what is the possible solution?

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THE GIST FOR THIS WEEK.

Like I told you earlier, this week's episode is going to be different and it will take a different form.
I realized that we have always been talking about love on the show, we have different case study every weekend which still boils down to love, the love could be between parents, siblings, lovers and so on.

It is true that we all have different views of analysing situations, so I decided to meet people and then have them tell me what love meant to them, this is what we will be sharing on the show today, what love means to different people from different homes and different backgrounds. Please enjoy......

@adoore-eu: Love is a feeling or affection for someone or something. It's a feeling you get when you mean more to someone or someone means the world to you.
Love is that feeling that says, no matter what everybody thinks, I will stick with you. It's supposed to be a mutual thing. It knows no barriers, not selfish and it endures and overcomes all odds. True love never fails, no matter the distance or other challenges, love will find a way.
When you are in love with someone, the person is like a fever inside you. You want to see and talk to him every day, you are willing to make sacrifices without shame and walk through the edge of the universe for him.

@gbenga: Most people believe that love makes the world go round. The psychological wellbeing of a human's life is affected by love.
Love is all you need, each and every day. Love can make the world go round. So love in your own little way, it is the answer to our problems.
But, true love do exist, true love is giving, true love is sacrifice, true love is persevering, true love is care, love is the beginning and the end of good deeds, it makes the world go round.

@illuminatus: Love is accepting that someone or something isn't perfect and still loving them regardless.

@trillex: Love is very difficult to explain, it's that inseparable feeling you get, especially when you feel it towards another human,say your better half.
I have felt it before God, it's just beautiful.

@korexe: Love is pure and seeing the imperfect as perfect, love is accepting all of each other's flaws and mistakes as yours and making sure things get better.(I haven't been able to figure out what love really is, but I asked a friend and this is what she had to say.)

@bat-junior: Love is a crime that has to be committed. Trust me, just like a mentor of mine said in a song of his "if love is a crime, I will like to dey stay jail".

The reason why I called love a crime is because it involves a lot of commitments and sacrifice. Love is strong, beautiful, wicked and a pivot to a reasonable healthy life.
For something to be called a crime, it is when it has involved the overruling of proposed orders. Trust me folks, love is a crime because the moment you are in love with someone or something, you just overruled someone's order because that person might either be crushing on you or doesn't want you to love.
Love is a crime that has to be committed.

Toyosi odebola: Love is a feeling from the heart.

@steve1122: Love cannot be defined but it can only be measured by the amount of sacrifice someone can make for your sake.

@marvade: Love does not exist, it is just an illusion of the mind, people who claim they are in love tend to do crazy things they wouldn't do on a normal circumstance.

This are different definitions of love I was able to get from different individuals who obviously have different mind sets, I really want to her your own side of the story as well.

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SHOUT-OUTS.

@adoore-eu: To @jeaniepearl, thank God you are back on your feet again, may God be praised.
To @julietisreal, thank you so very much for adding glamour to my kitchen today. Your cooking experience is really intriguing.
To @jeline, success is my wish for you in your exams. Flying colours.
To @stach, @olawalium, @pangoli, @peakreal, @emjoe, @theheralds, @prechynelly, @simplicitytech, @smyle, @euronation and my loyal friends always on my blog, I say thank you.
To @omotundegirls, wishing you all the best in your exams.
To @adejoke16, I have missed you, hope you are cool?

@bat-junior: A big shout-out to @honourmaus, that guy is cool.

Thank you for making today's episode a success. You can reach me through :
Mail: [email protected].

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When some one tells lies repeatedly it becomes a habit. When it becomes a habit his body system adjusts and accepts that as normal. At this time he can tell lies with out regret. A lady once told me she prefares beating by her hussie than his keeping quiet on her. Now when a wife accepts beating by her husband as a normal thing in marriage, she adapts and live with it. COMPLEX!

It is a serious situation oo my brother.
Thanks a lot for coming around, I really appreciate.

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Hmmmm... Interesting subjects we he here today.

Well, love is a subject that I see as just too broad. My advice is whenever and wherever we find ourselves in love, we should make sure it brings out the best in us at all times.

If a woman should be beat by her husband or not, or if it's normal. In my opinion, no man should beat his lady no matter the reason. And I find it crazy that some women see it as normal to be beaten by their husbands. It is an abuse and no form of abuse should be tolerated either it's physical or emotional.

I wonder ooo.
I appreciate your constant support brother, thank you so much.

It really took a different turn this week. Nice to see love described. You got me there, didnt know you were publishing names but I mean every word I said about love. Well done dear, this episode is simple but lovely.
I think the woman mentioned that her husband beats her for the money, not really that she enjoyed it but because she sees no reason why the person shouldnt pay up. unless they want another beating for her. In truth, she has no shame but if that is what she will do to blackmail the debtor to pay , its better. Her husband on the other hand is crazy. kudos again

Oh mama, thank you so much. I really appreciate your constant support on the show.

Humm
I count men who hit their women as weak and unreasonable.
Love? Love is magical💖

Go girl👏👏👏
Beautiful one

Thanks darling....
I sight you.

@oluwatobiloba am sorry for not been consistent again, I hope you would understand me. It about new dimension in life.

I have only one simple statement for the husband who turn her wife to punching bag.

The husband is crazy and he need to be subjected to mental test whether to determine is mentally alright or not.

My definition of love is that;

Love is beautiful thing you can't shy away from.

It's okay brother, I understand very well.
Thanks for the visit, that is it oo we can't shy away from love no matter how strong hearted we think we are.

@adoore-eu thanks for the shout out ma
how can i love you less??

@oluwatobiloba you are doing a great job hun, keep the fire burning

Thanks darling, I am glad you are strong now.

Election took me away yesterday...

Question for the week

Some women are ignorant especially the local ones we have around. The way a woman presented herself will be the way she will be handle. When a woman tend to look cheap, I mean not knowing her left from her right, forcing her way into a man life and not been able to tell the basis of their love story then the unexpected become inevitable.

This is my own definition of Love

The expression of trust and the believe of having a confident which is patient to listen, care and cherish. Love is always proud of whatsoever and ready to live with each other flaws. Love is gentle and meek not expecting anything in return of a favour.

Well done @oluwatobiloba

My friend, this is deep oo.
Thanks a lot for coming around, I sight you brother.
How was the election yesterday, I hope no one bribed you?

They can't try that 😁 😁 😁

It's okay, if you say so.

O ga o. I'm not so surprised she's still in that relationship sha, these days we hear a lot of women sitting pretty in abusive relationships for some reason only known to them. God help us all

Amen oo brother. The most annoying part is that there is someone who is really crazy about them and they will not even listen to him.

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