Love never Hurts
Love does not hurt. Pain cannot be Present in Love. Where there is Pain, there is no Love and where is Love there is no Pain. To associate Love with Pain in this World is a Illusion, that Love is never. Love just is Love for You as You are Unconditionally with no Attachments, no Expectations, No Conditions. Love just is. Love and Pain cannot coexist.
Attachment is Root Cause of all Pain. Attachment is not Love. Attachment is Opposite to Love. Love sets You Free, yet Attachment is afraid of losing You. Love is Freedom in the Wind, Bird in the Wind that I AM Flying as Her Heart desires, yet Attachment is a Cage of Illusion, Cage of Pain. Bars of the Cage are made out of Conditions, Expectation, Control and constant Fear of losing which have nothing to do with Love, but only hurt in Time.
When Lovers get Attached to each other, They want to change each other according to eachothers Expectations and Conditions. Love Loves You, for who You are, as You are Unconditionally. If You Love a Chocolate Cake, You get a Chocolate Cake, for You Love a Chocolate Cake, Taste of Chocolate Cake YOu Love. You do not buy a Strawbery Cake and Fight with it, why is not tasting and looking like Chocolate. You Know what You want and You get just that. That's Love. You Love a Chocolate cake and not a Strawbery Cake. You do not get a Strawbery Cake and Fight with it, Why it is not a Strawberry Cake. You Know the Cake You Love and You get just that Cake. That's Love.
Yet Lovers suffering in Cage of Attachment, do just that. It is indeed just like fighting with a Strawbery Cake, why it is not a Chocolate Cake. Their Beloved does not act in Ways and does Things that They desire from the One They want to Love. In Attachment, They Fear of losing Eachother, but They do not like how They Taste and appear. They do not like how They move, but They are so Attached. They want to Change each other. So They Fight. They actually do not Love each other, for Who They are, but They are Attached to Illusion pf eachother, that They want eachother to be but They are not. Love does not hurt, but their Expectation, Attchment that cannot accept Eachother for Who They are but wants something and Someone Else. Illusion of Attachment hurts. Indeed They are just like those who buy a Strawbery Cake and Fight with it, why it is not a Chocolate Cake. Indeed They Blame a Strawbery cake, for not being a Chocolate cake. But Strawberry Cake is Strawberry Cake and Chocolate Cake is Chocolate Cake. They suffer in Cage of Attachment to Their Illusion, that Their Partner is not. Attachment Hurts. Illusions hurt. Love is real and Love never hurts.
Lovers can only unconditionally accept each other as They are in all Their Ways, Flaws,, Glories and Choices for Who They are Unconditionally or They can be Sincere to each other and Themselves and admit to Reality, that Their Beloved is not What They want in a Partner They and does not act in Ways, They want from the One that Loves Them to act. They can shed a Tear and part in True love that Respects and accepts One another, for Who They are, but sincerely realizes, that They cannot be together. That's Love. They can also Try to control and change each other also, but Then They are to Suffer in Pain only and Break apart in Explosion of Illusion. You can only be Yourself love and You can be only Loved for Who You are. That's Love that never hurts, Everything else is Attachment to illusion and Great Pain
Love does not Hurt. Never. Love just Loves You as You are and Love Loves as it is. Love just is. Attachment is Root Cause of all Pain. Attachment on Illusions, that do not exist and therefore it hurts, Eye give You My Word.
- Purna Ananda 6.11. 2018 ©
