How you can be more attractive to women, a realistic list of improvments.

Start by asking yourself what are you willing to sacrifice (pay) to become more attractive?

Really think about that question, because it’s often overlooked by people who have become obsessed with Hollywood "love" stories, where the dorky or nerdy guy always gets the girl, who likes him for who he is. They focus on what they want (girls attention)and look for short cuts, tricks, or quick fixes. Really, radical self improvement is a continuous goal you work towards that requires a high level of sacrifice and continued work to receive tangible results.

You are in competition for attention (attraction) and the things you can’t control (your genetics) are already chosen for you by your parents. So anything after that, that didn’t organically develop will come at a cost; time, money, pain , some cultural stigma etc. Step one, is to identify your flaws. This is easier said then done, because research has shown we see ourselves as way more attractive than we are - (see https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/you-are-less-beautiful-than-you-think). If you have some friends who can be honest with you, that may help, or you can result to internet chatrooms and anonymous advice, because most people will lie if you ask about unattractive aspects that you can improve on.

Everyone's “improvement list” is not the same. Some people will benefit greatly from weight loss and fitness, while others need to work on their “social game” and get better at communication. Some people need better style, etc.
some people need plastic surgery (which people who are competing against you will judge you for). Take a good look at yourself, be extremely honest. What you need to do is, write down the things you think can change, what that will take and how you plan to do each one of them.

Here are some common items to improve your attractiveness and their associated sacrifice and cost (some are highly controversial, this list isn’t about judging but TRULY answering the question of improving one's attractiveness to women.

Hot Body : Hours in the gym and controlled eating (no deserts, no buffets etc)

Nice teeth: Braces, crowns and veneers (expensive and painful)

Pretty face : “fix” unattractive facial features (like a large nose) using plastic surgery, expensive and carries social stigma, have moles removed etc etc.

Great Hair: Stylish hair cut matched to head/face shape, reduce or stop thinning / balding , use Medication and/or get a hair transplant.

Trendy style: buy better clothes, hire a stylist and make sure everything fits correctly.

Sexy Body positioning and kinetic movements: Learn to move your body and face in a more attractive ways, learning to dance (dance classes) is one way to improve your body movements.

Attractive Height: Adjust posture by doing heavy back exercises and forcing good posture, wear lifted boots or shoes, if you’re really short leg lengthening surgery

Don’t wear ugly glasses: Buy designer ones that improve your look, or get lasik surgery or wear contacts depending on style.

Confidence: Even fake, people find confident people more attractive, so practice public speaking and talking in groups, and progress to where you can confidently talk to woman and groups of people.

Leadership: Create a meetup group (free) or organize a hobby group and practice leading people. Strong leadership skills are universally attractive.

Bravery: Become more courageous by conquering your fears.

If you do those things, there is high chance you will vastly improve your general attractiveness more girls will find you attractive than they do now. If you have an “extreme” makeover type improvement (lose 100lbs etc etc), it will radically change your life. Good luck!