Love tips from broken links

After the end of a disappointing relationship, we almost always suffer. For lost love, another disappointment ... Nobody wants to go through a broken love affair, but sometimes it happens. Even though we feel bad, we forget about the lessons we receive. They are the most important because they will help us avoid the same mistakes in our next partnerships. See the next lines of these lessons.

If you can not be yourself, your relationship has no future

Can you and your mate appear in your true light one before another, with all your flaws and virtues? If you are not sure, then what future is waiting for you? How long can you pretend to be someone you are not?

If you feel the need to hide some part of yourself from the other, you are definitely not one for another. A happy love affair has to give you the freedom to be what you have before your partner, not to change under pressure.

Can you express your emotions freely and how much they are shared?

In one connection, one of the most important things is to share. For some people the expression of emotions is more difficult. However, if someone has serious intentions towards you, he will find a way to express them.

Perhaps it will not be in words, but with actions, touches, small gestures. When you see that there is no feedback about your feelings, maybe it's time to look for a new love that's shared.

People do not change

Love relationships teach us a very important lesson not only about love but also about life - people do not change. Despite their promises despite our hopes.
While we are in a relationship to some extent, our partners are going through changes, diverging views, life goals, dependence on bad habits that harm the relationship (violence - physical or emotional, alcohol abuse, drugs, etc.) remain the same.

If you do not value what you have, you will lose it

Often in long-term relationships, partners begin to accept their mate as a given, thinking that they have completely conquered it and that it is not necessary to make the effort for the relationship.

Then they forget about important dates, places, forget about romantic little surprises, compliments, good communication, and so on. Not long after the relationship breaks down or one of its partners finds the missing in a love affair. After the end we evaluate and see what we have lost.

The great ego hinders love

A person who is "absorbed" by himself, who thinks that his needs need to be put first, will rarely pay attention to your needs. Egoism always acts destructively on relationships.

At first our love dazzles us, the neglect of our personality seems to us a little, insignificant. Over time, we realize that we have trapped our feelings, and our half with our great ego does not value us as personalities.

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