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Them fairytails movies toss at us ...Consider the lesson there.

How many girls grew up thinking a truly beautiful princess should meet her soul mate while her age still starts with a "1"?

How many found out that's a bbq for disaster?
2/3 of people who marry between the age 15 and 22 wind up divorcing. ...

Im happy to provide them stats , all circled up, sparkly & shinY :P

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IT always works out in the movies; -get married and instantly activate the "happily ever after" clause. Hardly a word is ever said about the crippling, lifelong psychological damage that they're suffering..... Cooper('Silver Linings Playbook') might be the hero, but living under his fathers gambeling issues , divorced by his wife that also cuddles with his father& put a reistraining order on Cooper; NOW that have to do something terrible to his psyche.
Cinderella and Aurora who marry the first human male they've ever met in their lives o.O

like; hello : Excuse me what?

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The odds are low that your partner of 5 weeks is compatible enough to marry... O.o
& if you're willing to still try, -Vegas would love you
( casinos have marriage parlors right alongside them, for A reson^^).
Yet lots of us grow up with that fantasy, that the person we meet in the middle of some dramatic high-stress period is our soulmate just because....
movies state sOoooO

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IRL of course, single people are doing fine.
Despite the popular opinion mirrors movies/Disney in believing that reaching 30 without A ring on that finger .. ;) -will result in a bitter depression:P
In fact, autonomy (the ability to do whatever you damn well please, whenever you want) is one of the best indicators of overall life satisfaction!!
Getting old; isn't a huge deal either, since we are seeing that people in general get happier as they get older.
So really, making it past thirty without a ball and chain allows you to have a super awesome, happy life

where you don't have to convince anyone else that popcorn, booze, and frosting counts as dinner ;)

I hate to get all cheesy on you all,

;but you need to love yourself before you can love someone else.. ;)

Life AINT a fairytale — you can’t just kiss A frog to find your perfect partner

If you now are singel:

Let it be knows throw the grape wine ^^

You know that friend , who knows a girl that has a neighbor who is a unkle with James Brown— that knows somebody who could be your somebody!
Don’t be shy; Go mingle. Find your inner Julie Andrews and sing it loud and proud, prefreably ON key ;)


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I AM ONE 🙋‍♀️ I belived that my MR right Prince would come and swipe me away.
Didnt quite happen that way and WAY later... Lol

So True about... We need to love ourselves before we can love others... Easier said than done sometimes 🙄
Much easier to love others....

I watched all that Princess movies as a kid and always been a dreamer and a beliver in good and hope.... Still do!

I have had my share of RL experiences tho so I know life isnt like a fairytale... Life can be harsh and break you... But I still have hope and still hope to meet that, SPECIAL SOMEONE
I do well on my own and have grown much The last 2 years.
But I am ready to share my life with someone Who wants The same things in life and loves me like I love him.

Am I a hopless romantic?

Thank you for sharing this and it made my head spinn and think Hard... Lol

I hope you are doing well and having a wonderful Day my sweet friend.
Missed you pretty Lady 🤗💕🌺🌹

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Aww cutY :D i should have guess that ;) See i find nuffin wrong with watching allll disney movies and -fidn love' movies :D all glory to that, my point, is dont take it so serious, they are made up..
See you got that WAY later down ;) i think; trying to see/feel it as a learning curve, instead of get all dark & twisted about it, can be helpfull???
Aww come ON, im a huge FAN of -hope, faith &good !!! maybe just my scales are a bit ruffer then for most???, as i see light ; like All OFER :D ha ha
Do you still watch them cute & cuddley prinsess movies????

Life can be buut life is more about , learning why stuff happends hunny bu nny :D xoxoxo
See now you tattled on your slf ; remember -say it throw the grape wine? ;) goooo tell more then US on this post- Il bet my STEEM, you can find Mr right :D

See you know the reson why popcorn is dinner ;) LOL :D

No, hun, your nooot even close to hopeless romantic, your just biding your time, see you got WHY, vegas have them places ;)

Aww your most welcome hun, so FAB to finally get your attention.. Missed ya sugar💕💕💕💕💕💕
Love to hear that your head IS spinning ; then i did MY job :D

OMG! Love the pics and the message! I have always been single and love my life! Long ago I asked my dad if I should marry my boyfriend and he told me something priceless! He said “You shouldn’t have to ask anyone!”

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woohoo so great to hear :D congrats on that :D you gooooooo GirlY :D!!!!
aww i wish my dad was like that, myn told me to marry ritch ;)
And , noo you dont need to ask, more people need to hear that :)

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