"IF I CAN'T HAVE YOU, NO ONE WILL"

in #love6 years ago (edited)

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If I can't have you, then no one will!" is a very dangerous and life threatening statement often used by obsessed lovers demanding to be loved and if they don't get what they want, they may go violent or irrational.

The phrase means exactly as it sounds. Someone is laying exclusive claim over another, disregarding the other person's thoughts and feelings which comes with implicit threats or violence if they do not get their way.

This could apply to both sesex, so, if you hear this phrase from your partner after a break up, it is threat to your life, so never take it lightly by thinking it is an erroneous statement

Avoid obsessive lovers like the plague especially the type that will give you their all and you must reciprocate by force, if not, they can go any length to get their pound of flesh.

This statement is a sign of looming danger and it will do you more harm than good if you don't stay away from such person. Stay away from any one that threatens your life with fire and brimstone or anyone that monitors your life here and there.

An obsessive partner can do anything to harm the other person. They are overly jealous that they don't want to see you with the opposite sex and when they do, it's always displeasure or war

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When you break up with someone that loves you, he or she will get over it with time and will not threaten you, but as for an obsessive lover, heaven and earth must hear that you're no longer dating them.

They can go to your new lover and physically assault the person. They can even come to your house to destroy your properties and collect every single thing you they have given you

Love and obsession are two different things. Love is not arrogant neither does it require threats.

Use your head when dating

I hope this makes sense to someone?

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One of the worst things that can happen to anyone is dating a obsessive and insecure partner they are very toxic

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