Being Considerate In Marriage, Contributed By @Olawalium
I always tell people that marriage is a bit tricky. It requires a lot of effort and you need to be smart too. There are a lot of things that will be thrown at you but you need to be strong and sometimes stand your ground while you should always make some compromises too.
Most of the problems people face in marriages can be solved if we can just be considerate with each other. When you are considerate, you will be tender about hurting your partner, you will be careful with your choice of words and you will be more careful how you act around her too. We need to be considerate when dealing with our partners because when we are being considerate, we are eradicating selfishness and greed.
Marriage requires a lot of hard work because we are not only living for ourselves but also for our partners. We need to think about them before making some certain decisions and we need to be certain that our actions are not jeopardizing the essence of the relationship and this is why being considerate is of utmost importance.
I came across a story on Twitter and I was shocked to my bones. I don’t understand how someone could act in such a way, thereby taking another partner for a fool. There is no doubt such action will sabotage the marriage.
A married woman posted a post and narrated her ordeal. She is in need of opinion. She said she has been married for 6 years and before she got married, she already knows of a woman that gave birth to two children for her husband. The husband has been separated from this woman for 2 years before she came into the picture. She said she asked the husband several times if they were still together and the husband said they were no longer together. The husband even ridiculed the woman with the baby and called her diabolical and manner-less. He said he would never have married such a woman in the first place and she believed him.
…to be continued…
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Indeed....marriage is very sensitive things which are based on thin line of understanding. A slight misunderstanding and everything fallen apart. First thing i believe any issue related to marriage must be discussed and sorted within the partner before reaching out to public. No need to hurried up as every relationship asks for time.... If that lady have reached to Twitter before having formal discussion with her partner I would she did the mistake...anyway would love to see how the story unfolds...
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Another spot on comment. Communication is vital in marriage and the ability to communicate effectively at that. The man should be considerate while the lady should have given the husband a bit of her mind before asking the general public for opinions. The truth is, they might resolve this and she would feel bad for bringing it to the general notice in the first place.
Yess...that what I feel reading it...why to go public , better to discuss and resolve at home
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