We All Have One VII, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5 and part 6
After all the beating and all the fight he gave her and that happened between them, they made up, even had sex; and he took her money, rode her car and the cycle began all over again. It was in the course of all these that he made a sex tape with her, and now he's threatening to release it on the eve of her wedding. OUCH!
In this kind of scenario you can understand if she has to assume the worst. She can assume the ex will release it, she can assume the video will even go viral, and to make it worse, she is a well-known person, who has achieved some level of success. There's no point asking why someone or anyone would choose to do this on the eve of her wedding. Evil has no rational basis and this is why we call it evil. Her ex-boyfriend is just evil which is why he doesn't want her to be happy. A lot of people can’t handle the fact that a lady dumps them for a better person; someone who doesn’t exploit or hit her and even after just her body.
A lot depends on this soon to be husband. No man wants to hear this kind of news on the eve of his wedding. He would generally assume there are many hidden things she has not even made mention. His head would spin and he would feel really embarrassed. This is why courtship is important as it is a process of getting to know more about each other before deciding if you can be together.
A lot of people try to bury what they have done in the past, thinking if they open up, the person will leave. If he or she leaves, then they are not the best for you in the first place. I also understand the place of fears; where you tell that person and that person leaves and he or she starts spreading the mess in your past. This is why when you noticed you are dealing with a baby-man or a baby-lady, just let them go. Trust those people with little information first and see how they react. That’s the essence of courtship, test their resolve and character because who they are will definitely come to the fore when tested. She can’t know if she could have trusted this guy with the information or not until she tried, and now she will have to find out the hard way; on the eve of their wedding. The question remains; **”How would he react?”
…to be continued…
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In my opinion, this man is a type of type of person because after getting this thing he did not want to do it, he got a meeting of the people he needed, then why did he do it, but it was not possible by anyone other than a guy.
Very hard for the men to get over this shock. Would have been better if the girl did not hided her evil past....if the lady had some terrible mistake if past she should have shared it with her new beau to make a perfect future. By keeping silent she is put herself question of trust. Good thing that evil guy came to party..and not after marriage to exploit the lady again and again.....its kind of screwing many life together only for the sake of one haunted past
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In my personal opinion, the lady needs to care about her body relationship before marriage. She should avoid sex before wedding. Because this act of sex before wedding is very shameful .and this also leaves a point for that person to blackmale you later .in this case she needs to be strong.
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He would definitely feel bad and can't ever trust her. In fact the wedding would be broken and hatred would start immediate
He won't ever want to hear anything from her