Marriage is chosen with the aim of perfecting half of religion, with the aim that worshiping God is more perfect

Marriage is chosen with the aim of perfecting half of religion, with the aim that worshiping God is more perfect, and with the aim that life will be more meaningful and colorful.

Then when the number three marriage is intertwined, you can't regret it? Do not! Because of the lack of good will eventually be felt by husband and wife.

Why? Because it is impossible for two people who have an unequal ego to be able to always be aligned in one goal, there must be a debate, a dispute, and a quarrel.

And a good relationship is not because the household that was built has never had a problem, but whatever the problem is you have to be able to learn and struggle to improve it.

Remember, even small or big quarrels should not be a problem, so don't be careless about taking halal steps that God doesn't like.

But learn from the quarrel, paint it wisely, and reflect it with humility.

Because a good relationship is not one without quarrels or strife, but whatever the quarrel you must be able to understand and give in.

Because it is very impossible that a household will always run smoothly, because God will surely test both husband and wife so that they can strengthen one another.

God gives a trial not because God does not want to see you peace forever, but so that you and your partner know that life towards His Jannah needs the name of struggle, patience, and sincerity.

Then when you see a household that seems cool, always happy, and as if it never gets into trouble or quarrels, it's not because they are fine forever.

Sometimes they do hide everything tightly, they are good at hiding their disgrace, because they realize that other people do not need to see the problem of what they are fighting for.

So, when your household is now in a great quarrel, in complicated problems, and disputes that you think are saturating, be patient!

In addition, learn from every problem that exists, because surely any problem will contain a lot of wisdom, because God will insert valuable lessons in it.

The point is, never give up on problems that are settled in your marriage or in your household, whether it's a problem that comes from you and your partner or from others.

No matter how bad your household life you live, you must be able to fight and be patient, because from that problem you will be more responsible for living your life.

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