Relational Intelligence VI.

in #motivation6 years ago

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I have been talking about having or surrounding yourself with the right kind of relationship; or the right kind of people but i want to also tell us about other kind of relationship that you must not and in fact cannot trivialize.

Other kinds of relationship to cultivate:


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2 Personal relationship:

Still on this second point.

When you love yourself deep enough, you won't accept just anything or surround yourself with just any kind of person. We are human and perhaps there was a moment you let your guard down and you found yourself with a wrong kind of person, you will know you deserve better and you will leave without looking back.

When you have a purpose, an identity, and a place; these three things allow you to understand and love yourself and even others, just because they make you understand yourself.


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When you have a purpose, you won't sweat over what people think about you negatively. It will be like water off a duck's back. When you have an identity, you won't just accept any kind of love or do anyhow that will give you an identity crisis. Not every place is your place. Not every relationship is worth keeping and this is why having a relational intelligence helps. Your mind tells you what is wrong but due to lack of strength and self love, we go head on with it, hoping things change. Know the kind of people to surround yourself with. Life isn't always emotional, nor is destiny emotional.

Know the kind of people to relate with because you love yourself enough not to have just anyone thwart of distort your life with their selfishness or more so lack of consideration.

...to be continued...


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