We All Have One III, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1 and part 2.
We all have a past, we all have a present, and we all have a future; only if we don’t let our past rob us of our present, which might have a negative impact on our future. It is the nature of youth to do things without much thought.
We do stupid things and this is why we go into relationship with people we shouldn’t go into one with, why we sleep with people we shouldn’t, why we waste money on things we shouldn’t, we try to impress people who are not even for once giving attention to us, make videos we shouldn’t, take pictures we would rather not take, not to talk of send, and even do things that will forever haunt us.
I heard of a story and I was saddened by it. The ex of this lady came to her wedding ceremony, raised up his hand when asked who is against the wedding, and he stepped forward. He asked the husband if he truly want to marry this lady in question because as at yesterday, they were still together making love. The lady couldn’t hold back the tears. The husband to be was looking in disbelief. I am sure the ex knew something about her past which is what he has been using against this lady to sleep with her on his terms. The lady in question also hasn’t forgiven herself of whatever past she had, because if she did, she would have opened up whatever it is to her to be husband, and the ex wouldn’t have the leverage to be using the situation to sleep with her at his bidding.
The first step to recovery from the hold the past has on us is to forgive ourselves first. When we forgive ourselves, we will open ourselves to new ways which will gradually allow the hold of our past to fade from our memory.
…to be continued…
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Here you come...I was wondering when you come up with some real life event..and here is the story to look forward too...past always haunt us till we do not recover from it or till we do not assume it to be a mistake....
The guy at tye wedding for sure exploiting the girl by blackmailing..whereas the girl is also stand with her bad past...once she would have learnt from her mistake and shared everything with the husband she would be happy
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She made mistake being with the wrong one which later have effect on her presence. Thats bad; i pity her
That's really a sad story, why we sleep with someone? Never allow someone to hurt you. At early age young bloods done mistakes and later they regret it. Why regret later ? They should think twice that what they are going to do.