People won't have time for you if you are always angry or complaining.
If you now need to went, think about - -How do you complain?
An active complaint is directed at a specific event, situation or service that does not meet expectations.
The dissatisfied person, the “complainer,” makes a statement to whoever is responsible.
An “active complainer” is usually someone who possesses a level of assertiveness, self-esteem and confidence—they effectively ask for and obtain what they want.
Venting
Then there’s venting. Venting is expressing a strong emotion to relieve the pressure that the emotion has caused.
It has both positive and negative aspects.
When a person vents about a distressing situation to a group of like-minded individuals, it has the potential to evolve into a brainstorming session that results in taking action. In addition, getting something off your chest can lessen the grip of angry or frustrated feelings.
But constant venting with no action taken can turn into whining.
A Ineffective Complaint
The ineffective complaint is different altogether. The subject of the complaint is sometimes a condition over which the complainer has little control. However, by complaining about it, the individual gets the sense of gaining some control and—erroneously—feels mastery over something that cannot be mastered.
There for the chronic complainer falls into a perpetual cycle of finding fault, feeling negative, and then being unable to face the next situation with an open mind.
Eventually, the capacity for feeling joy is compromised.
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SUPER :D
woow screaming & all ^^
Hi sweety, how are you doing???
Hi Sunny :)
I am starting the weekend and I going to my friends with a visit /dance\ :D
What plans do you have for the weekend? :)
Woohoo that sunshine is MeEEee ;) LOL
aww you party animal, you ^^Soooo did you have fun??? Hmm cant say i ever heared about a visit/dance???
my plans was studies O.o it backfired badly as i cracked a disc in my back... so sum up was- licking my woonds :P LOL