Tyrant child syndrome.

An increasing number of children and adolescents are impressed by their behavior toward their parents or close relatives. Yes, we are in the presence of the syndrome of the emperor or tyrant child. Actions or behavior that can range from verbal, psychological and even physical abuse, in order to impose their whimsical "rules", that is, get away with it at the cost of whatever.

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These youngsters of difficult control, soon finish dominating their parents under some manipulation, making a hell home, they fall into their networks, that is, the parents end up conceding the whims, who come to make a fertilizer to finish germinating the little seed of abuse, giving way to the roles are reversed and are children or young people who become tyrants, kings or emperors take the baton.

Almost always, it is the mother who receives the abuse, the tyrant's main victim. From the age of 5 he begins to show his behavior, then at school age he continues his development until he becomes a problematic adolescent.

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Factors that lead the child-teenager to become a tyrant:

• Absence of limits or rules.
• Absent parents.
• Loneliness.
• Little attention from parents.
• Excess of permissions.
• Environment surrounded by vices.
• Poor school performance.
• Lack of criteria or agreements between parents.
• Leave the responsibility of parenting to third parties.
• Absence of affection.

How to prevent tyrant child syndrome:

• Clearly apply the rules and limits from an early age.
• Establish adequate communication. (respect shifts to speak, zero shouts or threats, no insults).
• It is advisable that parents set a good example.
• Correct aggressive behavior
• Teach to be humble, recognize and respect others.
• Correct the egocentric behavior of the child.
• Teach to obey both in school and at home.
• Promote a sense of responsibility.
• Instead of cornering them for their bad behavior, the ideal is to educate them in values.

When we are in the presence of these difficulties it is advisable to ask for help, either with the school counselor or simply ask for an appointment with a psychology professional to channel the problem, and thus achieve a better citizen in time.