10 Tips how to save the female friendship

in #psychology6 years ago

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Like any other relationship, friendship takes time and effort. If you think that your relationship with a friend deteriorated or you want to strengthen friendships, there are ways that will help you in this. If you regularly communicate and support your friends, you will be able to overcome conflicts that may arise, as well as maintain friendly relations for many years.

When friendship gives a break, it must be urgently saved. Children or teenagers can exchange some identical souvenirs or bracelets with the names of each other, find a joint hobby. Men's friendship will be strengthened from going on a fishing trip or a football match or simply from a conversation in a purely male company. With female friendship things are more complicated. Two women can be friends for life, and then suddenly to fight.

Here are 10 tips to help save your female friendship.

Do not agree if your friend tells you that she behaved incorrectly or did something bad. Let her be right, this is done only to hear your support in return. Just calm her down and that's it.

Going somewhere together, do not leave your lfriend alone under any circumstances, even if you met a man of your dreams.

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Do not stay up late when you are visiting a friend. Arriving home, do not immediately rush to the phone to discuss the latest news and end the conversation. It is possible that you can prevent a friend who is trying to relax after a hard day. After all, friendship needs rest.

Never use your girlfriend solely for your own benefit. With a friend you can not be friends only to take things from her for a while or sit in a restaurant, cafe or somewhere else at her expense.

Do not ever use a friend for the sake of self-interest. You can not be friends with a person just because she can borrow a blouse or sit at a cafe at her expense.

Do not complain too often about your problems, not letting your friend speak. She may have the same thoughts that need to be voiced. Friends also like to be listened to and supported.

If your best friend is still friends with someone, do not you dare resent her. This does not mean that a friend has treated you worse. Better rejoice at the fact that she has such a kind and broad soul.

Envy is the "killer" of any friendship. Do not envy the success of a friend in her personal life and work, her beautifully developing relationship.

Do not ask a friend to share with you all her secrets. There are things that are best kept secret from everyone. And do not give out the secrets somebody trusted to you. Even if it's a tiny "secret", do not tell anyone.

Criticize your friend less. Better try to support her and help with advice. Of course, objective criticism is good. But if a person is in a crisis, it is better to say it in a softer form.

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I’m not a female but I have a circle of female best friends and, they need to see this!

Awesome awesome and awesome.

Ya good friendships .Every man need good friends .She sharing her all mind talk

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