The Things You Need To Let Go To Find Happiness

Approval of others
If you are happy with the decisions you make, this is the right choice, and no matter what others say. Think about how much you will get if you stop constantly looking back at other people, wondering if they like your decision or not. In addition, you even do not guess what people really think about you, so is it worth trying?

Listen to advice but do not let others decide how you live your life.

Anger and resentment
Anger eats you from the inside, so learn to put up with those who infuriates you. This does not mean that you can let others use you to just avoid a scandal, you just have to learn how to deal with anger and resentment, with the pain that remains inside. Remember that the one who angered you, controls you.

Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology that you never received.

Some people relish their offense as an exquisite dish, and this does not lead to anything good.

The image of an ideal body
How often are you guided by the tips from the beauty industry, the opinion of your relatives and friends? Your body is that little thing that really belongs to you, and to whom, if not you, decide how it should look? The only thing that matters is how you feel. Comfortable or not, the rest is decay.

The image of an ideal partner
The ideal partner does not exist, do not even hope. Each of us has an ideal image or at least a set of exemplary qualities that a person must meet, but life usually spits on these lists and laughs at them.

What qualities should a partner have for you to be happy? For all people the same: you have to love him with all your heart, feel easy and comfortable next to him, and he also has to accept you as you are. If there are the first two points - excellent, you have found what you need. It remains to cultivate the last point in itself.

He is not perfect. You too, and you will never be perfect. But if he ever made you laugh, if he admits that he's human and makes mistakes, be with him and give him everything you can.

Ideal life
Just as there is no ideal partner, there is no ideal life. Life is what you put in it, so if you are not ready to work hard and make efforts, then you choose to be unhappy. The choice you made directly affects how your life goes.

You can create your own world, the most beautiful of all worlds.

You are going to become rich
Many people live their entire lives with the thought that they must become millionaires. Despite the fact that this goal is not bad, this requires a lot of work. In addition, you do not need to make money the goal of your life, you will not bathe in them, like Scrooge.

The main thing is to find a job that will become your passion and self-fulfilling, and then money will come (of course, if you do not hate it).

Thoughts about the former
You broke up because of something, in any case there was a reason for this. Remembering your former people, think not about a person, but only about the lessons that life gave you, about what you got from this person. Do not think of a person who will never be with you - it will only destroy new relationships and make you suffer.

Luggage of memories
Do not drag the luggage of memories, especially about past relationships. If you strongly loved someone or thought that you loved, you subconsciously will compare, impose a projection on a new person who is not guilty of anything.

Creating new relationships, get rid of the old, and not only in life, but also in your head. And this is true not only for love, but for all relationships in general: with friends, co-workers, bosses, etc.

Total control
Sometimes you just have to relax and let life go as it goes. You can not control EVERYTHING, and you have to put up with it. Otherwise, you will always be nervous and in the end you can not do anything. Simply, there are things that are beyond your control, which must be accepted as they are.