Totally Outplayed III, Contributed By @olawalium.

…continued… from part 1 and part 2.

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With a little show of support for this guy, I think he should do a paternity test too, since there is an attack on her character from this guy. It might be a little questionable too, seeing she came in late at night after this guy has told her off already. It looks a bit dicey too, maybe she got rejected from the guy that impregnated her and she remembered this guy who was trying to dump her and she decided to pin it on him. It might not be it, but it looks like it and there is no crime in finding out, at least to be very sure since this lady’s character is being questioned.

Seek to know if the pregnancy is your and when you find out it is yours, the only manly thing to do is to accept the responsibility. Yes, it has altered the course of your life, but you brought this upon yourself and denying the responsibility is as bad too. Fatherhood has arrived prematurely. An average young man knows when he is being outplayed or set up but for the fact that he wants to take advantage of the opportunity for free sex, he ignores the silent scream of caution to have his way, only to find out that the voice shouldn’t have been silenced.


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This is why I always tell people not to date someone they know they won’t or can’t marry. It is a waste of emotion, time, and resources. Be intentional about who you want to date and be with. When you know you have no plans of being with them for the long haul, why waste your time with them? Is it to explore? Could it be because of attitude? Is it to have a feel of them? Or could it be because of the beauty? What motivates you is a great factor to determine if your relationship with someone will last. Sort your feelings out. We have all been there. We have all been guilty of this at some point, but that doesn’t make it right. We need to do better, because someone’s emotion is at stake here.

To reduce the damage this guy has already caused, if he doesn’t feel good about marrying her, he shouldn’t. The family of the lady will of course insist on marrying her, but if he doesn’t want to, he shouldn’t. As harsh as that may sound, the truth is they won’t both be happy in that marriage and they will end up messing up their lives. It is harsh but that’s the truth.

…to be continued…


Thank you for your time.


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If such thing happen then it shows the strong character of the lady. Who by anyhow wants her boy to be with her. The boy was not yet sure about her questionable character , he only feel that Even though question are raised upon her character, but just feel from a girl angle. That guy was in relationship with her since long and after few years wanted to dump her, how could she let it go so easily .....i am not saying she is doing good too.
If she has taken the pills then there wont be any chances of pregnancy...then for sure it was someone else.
These situation put the boys in lot of pressure and confused. Trully loved your suggestion to avoid getting into any dummy relation and make sure to find a long time relation

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Here we goes, that is well saying of you that we should not go for date with the lady with whome we can't marry. It is time wasting act. Girls are innocent in this matter so we should make it clear in the beginning. As playing with emotions is not right.

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If such thing happen then it shows the strong character of the lady. Who by anyhow wants her boy to be with her. The boy was not yet sure about her questionable character , he only feel that Even though question are raised upon her character, but just feel from a girl angle. That guy was in relationship with her since long and after few years wanted to dump her, how could she let it go so easily .....i am not saying she is doing good too.
If she has taken the pills then there wont be any chances of pregnancy...then for sure it was someone else.
These situation put the boys in lot of pressure and confused. Trully loved your suggestion to avoid getting into any dummy relation and make sure to find a long time relation

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Exactly what came to my mind; paternity test. It looks a bit fishy too and it could be either way; his or not but all in a bid to hook him.

Of course they won't be Happy if they get married so best thing for him is to take the responsibility as a father

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