Stop Being Too Available.

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The reason so many people end up being taken for granted in their relationship or hurt by others is because they are way too available. Gain some self-respect, will you? Even if you love someone so much, the only way to keep your self-value in your relationship is to stop being too available.

Signs You're Being Too Available.

  1. You answer right away: you're ready to abandoned everything you're doing and eben your night out with the girls just too quickly attend to your partner. This goes for the ladies more because they are defaulters of being extremely available. You should always be at your man's beck and call.

  2. You reply his every text: common' answering his every call or replying his every text does not guarantee a successful relationship.

  3. You sacrifice your beauty sleep just yo be with him: You'd rather go be with him when he calls you even if you're about to take some minutes for your beauty sleep.

  4. You let him plan all your date: You're okay with whatever decision he comes up with. You squeeze your schedule just to fit into his.

  5. You apologize for replying his text or not returning his call a bit later.

  6. You're never busy and you're ready to top your meetings and other engagements just to see and be with him.

  7. You also do not accept gifts from other guys or fates from other guys just because you're in a relationship with him.

  8. You're never angry at him and you even apologize when you're not wrong just to be on his good side, you never see his wrongs.

Reasons why you should stop being too available.

  1. You lose your dignity and self respect.

  2. He buys your forgiveness and heart with money and material things.

  3. He controls you and make you apologize even when you're right.

  4. He uses you at his own disposal.

  5. You make all of the expensive sacrifices.

  6. You don't make good use of your time and invest only little in yourself.

  7. You lose friends just to be with him and will always be alone when you 2 get into a fight.

  8. You will lose your importance and self worth.

Truth is when a guy really loves you, he won't always bother you to come around despite his urge to see you. He'd respect your schedule and admit to his mistakes and not take you for granted too at all. So to the ladies, stop being too available, you're spoiling your game and you will lose the value of being a lady.

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