The Two Sides Of Love

in #relationship6 years ago (edited)

34E3A7A7-3E75-4BD7-B24F-A63BC93589E6.jpeg
Img was sent to me through WhatsApp

There are two sides to everything in life , the positive and the negative. As per no one is 100% upright nor perfect, so one has got to maintain a balance between the two sides and so one’s life could be in equilibrium

But what happens when one side out weighs the other? What happens when the positive outweighs the negative and vise-versa? What’s the implication of an imbalance lifestyle especially in a relationship. Digest the next paragraph

Negativity and positivity are the terms I decided to use here cause they are a natural match in describing the good side and bad side of anything as far as description is concerned and the illustration of this would be demonstrated below

Phase One

BA9DA3F7-8DBA-4A03-B7BC-596B39AD463D.jpeg
When positivity outweighs negativity in a relationship

The positivity I’m talking about in this stage is that early part of a relationship, when a man is trying to impress a woman without setting boundaries as he forgot boundary settings is the foundation of any relationship that would last long

This phase is so that the man could get the attention of a lady and pleasing her alongside makes him tolerate whatever the lady does, intoxicated with beauty and has been placed on top of the world by the man. She messes around without any consequences

Phase Two

D3D5AB5C-4D3F-4D7A-89D6-7B2F814D94CC.jpeg
When negativity outweighs positivity

Some men has got zero tolerance for nonsense always put into place by the sometimes queen of the universe after having her attention and body. At this point the lady is supposed to balance her own equilibrium

But failure to do that , failure to set boundaries, failure to now see the equality by the woman and continues to feel more superior. Then the unexpected might happen like that you see in the picture above

Conclusively, we have got to understand the concept of two sides to everything in order to be able to balance and achieve an equilibrium in life . Thanks for reading

7084390E-4AC5-4B78-B87E-93EB8E734491.gif

Sort:  

And also on the negativity. Pride, and self ego can also be a major problem and a hindrance to the growth of a relationship.

It doesn't matter, if both parties are meant for each other. What really matters the most, is for both parties to see their relationship from the same eagles eye view.

You are right, there are boundaries that needs to be set by both parties and as a result would really make the relationship progress through the storms of life.

Coin Marketplace

STEEM 0.24
TRX 0.11
JST 0.032
BTC 61572.53
ETH 2995.53
USDT 1.00
SBD 3.73