Healthy Relationship Tip #5

in #relationship5 years ago (edited)

Every romantic relationship has two steering wheels and the partners in the relationship are mounting a steering each. The relationship can never go anywhere or progress unless both partners agree to steer it in the same direction.

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Regardless of how wonderful, godlike, kind, considerate, angelic, patient and tolerant a partner is, he/she cannot make his/her relationship work by his/her effort alone. Relationship is a game for two, and for that game to give the partners in it the anticipated result, the both partners in it must play as a team. That is, they must agree on a game plan and play according to the game plan.

Progress or growth in a relationship is a function of oneness. A relationship in which both partners are determined to make it work cannot be stopped by any obstacle regardless of how great such an obstacle is. Thus, if you want to succeed in your relationship, be with someone that want the relationship to succeed as much as you want it to succeed.

No one partner can make a relationship work all by himself/herself. You must be in symphony with your partner if your relationship orchestra is going to come out nice. Be careful with your choice of a relationship partner and always ensure that you're with a person because you love who he/she is and not what he/she is; because it is who a person is that would determine how smooth and far you would sail with him/her in the relationship journey. Choose your relationship partner with wisdom!

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These are very rich words. Agreement between the partners in a relationship is very important is the relationship would progress. There's so much to learn here. Thanks for the information

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Absolutely - it is teamwork and give and take - no other way works well.

You're very correct @momogrow. No relationship can work out if both partners don't work as a team. Thanks for dropping a comment

Hi @resuscitate

Personally, I believe that most "romantic relationship" are doomed. I would like to underline word "romantic". From my experience, romantic relationships are most of the time disconnected from real life.

It's definetly good to be romantic from time to time, but we may never forget that this feeling is very temporary.

I believe that in order to build the strong relationship both parties must be aware of challenges and responsibilities. Living in a romantic relationship is often a cause of break-ups. I may be wrong, but that's how I see it.

And obviously steering in same direction would be always great :)

Yours
Piotr

I used the term "romantic relationship "so as to differentiate the type of relationship that I'm referring to from other types of relationships out there.

Living in a romantic relationship is often a cause of break-ups.

I don't think this is true. Being in a relationship with the wrong person one of the causes of break-up. A relationship that would work out requires noth partners in it to commit to each other and when any of the partner fails to that, the relationship will start having problems. Romance is part of a healthy relationship and i don't think that it's responsible for break up.

Thanks for your support

Thank you for being so responsive @resuscitate
and sorry for such a late reply. just realized that I've missed your comment

yours
Piotr

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Thats so true but in real life some things are hard to follow !

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