Wide therapeutic effect of love

Just like every entity, Love can be measured. It's from such observed measurements that one knows if he or she is secured in a relationship or not. Though love knows no bounds but much love expressed can have a side effect to relationship and little expressed love can also be of effect like any overdose and underdose drug.

Most times we are told to love but no one tells us how much to love and so we end up in an endless cycle of broken relationship and betrayals. Sometimes we loose trust completely on love or ever meeting the right one. The fact is, you were not wrong loving , you probably didn't know the amount to give out. When much love is expressed we call you "cheap" and when it's not sufficient we call you "uncaring" . Men like tough girls but it gets to a time when they get bored from the rigidity and leave, men again like cheap girls, they get their way easily and after a short while,they are gone- In these scenario the both men left because at a point ,it was too tough and too loosed.

Therapeutic effect are term used by medicine to describe whether a certain amount of drugs administer into the body has the required effect or produce a side effect judging from the extent (quantity) of the administration. For better understanding, if I administer paracetamol of 510mg to a patient and the amount neither to produce the desired pharmacological effect is 500mg, the added 10mg can cause a side effect but then the range is narrow, so we call it a narrow therapeutic effect. But imagine I give someone 600mg instead of 500mg, the range is wide and can be toxic , we call this a wide therapeutic effect.

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You maybe confuse on how to keep a balance in love, that is fine, it took me a while to know this. Somehow you might have Expressed it during the early stage of the relationship, telling each other what you like and dislike, what gets you angry and not , set an agreement with limitations but few months into the relationship, the love grew to a point when the rules were constantly broken and you never realized,until it get to a point when you give more than he or she ever expect and then, you are taken for granted and neglected until things fall apart then boom! The worst happen.

Keeping a balance is recognising your limit. When to do certain things and not to despite the feelings that cripple in , pushing you to give more and more. The more you give your all in fear of loosing a relationship, the closer you get to loosing it. The more little you give into building your relationship, the faster it collapses. So both much and little have it effect.

People only misses you when they get little of you at a time and get tired when you give them much of you. So give them what I call little-much . It's never too much and not too little.