WAITING IN GOD

WHY DOES GOD MAKE US WAIT?
When God tells us: "WAIT", for many of us it is like he said: "DESPERATE," I do not know why, but young people tend to despair when we do not see the promises we have received from God fulfilled.
All at some time in our lives we have received this order from God, of course many of us have not liked this word so famous among youth. Perhaps we have never asked ourselves: "Why does God make us wait?"
I definitely believe that some of the reasons why God makes us wait is because:

1. He wants the best for us: Personally I do not believe that God was a tyrant making us wait for something that he can give us from now on, I believe that He always waits for the indicated moment in which he will answer us, Why? Simply because he wants the best for his prince which is you. If you are going through a waiting period do not despair, God will give you something super ultra mega excellent since your wait was worth it.

2. Because we are not ready yet: Many of us want things instantaneously, we would like God to be like a genie who comes out of a lamp to be able to ask for his wishes, you are wrong, many times God does not give you what you want because physically or spiritually You are prepared to receive what you ask for. You have to understand that God is omniscient is to say that he knows very well what is in your heart and knows very well the intentions you have for what you ask for.

3. Because he wants to examine our degree of Faith: Like Abraham, God will often want to mold our degree of Faith, but how nice it is when we stand with our heads held high, after knowing how to wait on God and see our request fulfilled.

4. Because I want to mold ourselves: Many times we will not understand why God makes us wait, but when God delays is because he is working, Moses was a man who had to train for 40 years in the desert before being used by God to free Israel from Egypt, so many times God will be training you without you often noticing.

Because many people around the world ask us: What is the best way to wait for God in the courtship? I want to dedicate a special part to this topic.

WAITING IN THE NOVIAZGO
We have all heard more than ever this phrase: "I will wait on God to not be wrong", for generations be heard these words "I do not want to be wrong", but really How many have been able to wait on God and how many were wrong ?.
I think that at a certain moment we all thought we were in love, we thought that the girl is the one that God has for me. I have to clarify that we are tripartite beings is to say that we are formed by spirit, body and soul. The spirit is the one that communicates with God, the body is the one that we show physically and the Soul is the reservoir of our emotions.
Now if the spirit is the one that communicates with God, do not you think God will talk to you and tell you what does or does not have to be the ideal person for you? I think one of the ways we will not be wrong is obeying what the Spirit tells us.

What happens many times is that we let ourselves be carried away by the "SOUL", that is to say by our emotions, many times the soul can be more than the Spirit, it seems that there is a constant struggle between what our emotions want (bone the Soul) and what God wants for us (bone the spirit).
Many want to wait on God in the wrong way, wait on God is literally "WAIT", you do not have to give God a little help, he does not need you to put your hands, you can say: "It's not that I know he or she is ", Then if so, you must wait for the time of God, do not despair or take yourself away, if you are so convinced, do not believe that someone will take it from you or they will take it away, if it is for you God and the I keep for you, nothing will happen, but if it was not from God, that person would get away from your life.
As long as you feel doubt in your heart I guarantee that God has not yet given you an answer, when something worries your heart is a sign that you should keep waiting, no matter how much time you spend but you must know that God will reward you for your wait and your confidence in The.
Many "courtships" have ended in failures because they did not know how to wait on God, many ended up being damaged, many attempted against their own lives or many ended with an unwanted pregnancy and all because they did not know how to wait on God.
But how nice it is to know that when we know how to hope in God he will give you the person you wanted all your life, the one you prayed for so long, the person you asked so much to support you, love you and understand you, which you even imagined that it was going to be as pretty as it surely will be.

What is the best way to wait in the courtship?

First, they have to keep distance, that is to say that there has to be physical contact, nothing of a small kiss, or holding hands or hugging, love letters, gifts with intentions, or anything like this.

Second, behave and treat yourself as friends, all courtship begins as a friendship, but the friendship you have to show to each other is a sincere friendship, without any purpose, but to be a true friend, on the way if God allows it It will be talking about the subject of courtship, that if when you feel the peace of God in your heart to do so, meanwhile the deal must remain that of a friend.

Third, no matter how much you insist if you still do not feel peace, do not give the "yes", remember that if your purpose is to please God you must be sure that he agrees to start a relationship. If that person really loves you, he will wait for you, but if his end is only a purpose to get something from you and not to love you for a lifetime, then he will despair and try to insist you to agree to be his girlfriend.

Fourth, do not allow your relationship to become "friends with rights", that is, do not allow your lack of waiting for God to lead you to fall into a "rightful friendship". What is a friend with a right? He is the one who, although he is not your boyfriend, has a certain freedom to kiss you, to hug you or often to reach other acts. Remember that you are a princess of God, for which you must guard yourself for the prince that God has prepared for you.

Many may say: "In the time that we are all we have been wrong ever," it may be true that most have been wrong, but what you should ask is: How is your heart after that disappointment ?, You would be surprised testimonials of people who were wrong in their courtship and for which to hold a grudge or hatred towards the opposite sex, do not believe in love or think that everyone is the same and that they will fail again. And all this because of not knowing how to wait for the Perfect Will of God.

HOW SHOULD I WAIT IN GOD?
If we want to receive the perfect will of God for our life we ​​must consider some steps that will help us to know how to hope in God, such as:

• Remain in communion with God: strengthening ourselves in prayer, in Word so that our faith grows and with a willingness that God's plans are fulfilled in our life.
• Recognize that God has everything under control: if you recognize that God is in control of everything, nothing will make you despair because your trust in your creator will make you stand firm on the rock.
• Know that my answer will be perfect: Of course if you wait on God, your response will be the perfect one, not the one you want, but the perfect one, that is, the one that God considered the most appropriate for you.

You must understand that if God enrolls you in the school of "WAITING" it is because he has something great for you, otherwise he would not make you wait. When you feel that time passes and not your response time, you should feel well ventured because God is working so that your response is the one that suits your life and that makes you grow spiritually and emotionally.

There is nothing better after a period of waiting than to see God's response that was perfect, if you want to experience a perfect response from God, "WAIT" in Him and He will.