Self Improvement Tips - Day 16 - Healthy Socializing
There many groups available where you can connect socially. You can either join a group that interests you or explore new topics. Facebook could be a good place to start searching.
Breaking the ice can be the answer to new social situations that can be awkward at first. This will make the other person feel more comfortable, especially when you broach a common interest.
Try to include your pets in your social life by taking them with you where practical. They can be great icebreakers and others will love their antics.
Try to include a personal message when sending out invitations to an event. Encourage them to tell their friends also - the more the merrier.
When in a social group, try sharing your experiences, passions and interests. This could lead to more connections for you.
When you want to expand your circle, take a new hobby and join a group associated with it. Making new friends is great as long as you don't ignore your existing friends.
If you are feeling tired of the status quo, why not grab a few friends and attend a local event. When you get out and do more you expand your opportunities to meet new people.
If you want to really connect, then put down your cell phone. Not only is it rude when you are in the company of others, but it's a true conversation killer.
Once you have joined a few groups, instead of sitting around waiting for the next event, why not organize your own event. It's a great way to meet new like-minded people.
If you want to broaden your skills and knowledge, try something new. This will make your life more interesting and make you more attractive to others.
Small talk can be flat and boring, but if you explore and practice it you can make it fun. You will find that small talk can lead to more personal talks and relationships.
Pets are a great ice breaker. I've met a lot my neighbors walking my dog, Furball. I also invite my neighbors over when I have cookouts. Many of them drop by to say hi and socialize. (they are also less likely to complain about any noise.)