Healthy Relationship Tips #3
A happy ever after is a product of love, commitment, understanding, kindness, sacrifice, respect, tolerance, perseverance, forgiveness, communication, honesty, improvement and faithfulness. Hoping to experience it without preparing yourself for all of the above will be a false hope.
Successful relationship is a product of work. Ask any wise man or woman that seem to be enjoying their relationship"what the secret is?" And all they will tell you will reflect most of the listed attributes above.
Relationships don't just become successful on their own; it's the people in it that will determine what they want it to be. Your relationship will be as wonderful as how you and your partner want it to be. Just loving each other is not enough. If the love both of you have for each other can't compare both of you to do all of the above for each other, then both of you have to sit down and find out why you're with each other.
A happy ever after is very achievable; but it doesn't come from wishing. It comes from working ( that is, working on yourself and how you relate with your partner). There's no short cut to relationship bliss. If you must enjoy the bliss, you must be willing to do the WORK.
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You are so right - it takes effort and commitment - no short cuts. The work pays off however.
Most people are looking for Relationship bliss without doing the work it requires. They don't understand that they bliss they're seeing is a product of years of work invested by the couples on their relationship. Good things don't come that easy o! Thanks for your comment