ESCAPING THE CONFUSION OF MARITAL DECISIONsteemCreated with Sketch.

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There rate at which our ladies and brothers choose today is so so strange and so disgusting
Confusion is the product of lack light

The inability to understand the system and the operation of the master in our lives can make us redesign another kind of lifestyle for ourselves
ungodly relationship is bedrock of poor decisions in life. Such as darkness is the product of lack of light. Men who don't want to marry wrong are men who don't carry the wrong step.

Our parents, friends tries by guiding us sometimes by letting us see the dangers ahead of the journey we embark on, but selfishness in us is a distraction about to waste us. There are several things that causes confusion in choosing who to marry.I will begin with the personality given to us by the lord whom the world didn't pay attention to.

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John 14:26 But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.

Beginning with this scripture friends
We got to know that there is an entity given to us by God. God will never leave us in the dark, Whoever die in darkness choose to. The first relationship to consider in your life before engaging any man in relationship is the relationship with the Holy Spirit.

Confusion in marital decision is the absence of the Holy Spirit. One of the parameter to measure the absence of the Holy Spirit in the life of any man is availability of confusion and disorderliness.

Understanding the part and the ministry of the Holy Spirit in your life will deliver you from choosing the wrong person in life. The things of the spirit are foolishness to the beings that are carnal.

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The ministry of the Holy Spirit can be so boring to you, but such happens because you are still of YOURSELF. But if you can be fool enough to submit to His ministry, you will deliver your destiny, your generation and your future from danger. The Holy Spirit will not allow you to satisfy your flesh, and his dealings can be so so painful.

When you are in the midst of double decision, what makes you choose the right is the presence of the Holy Ghost. No man walk with the Holy Ghost and enter confusion. Whenever you sense confusion in your decision, please get to know that you need to find out if the Holy Spirit is involved.The second thing that do cause confusion in choosing is the lack of vision.

Men who lack vision are men who lack direction

The inability to understand your vision will only help you to loose your direction and misplace your destination. You need to understand that vision is the partway to direction and a direction birthed by vision will produce good destination
Let me add this to the first one

When the Holy Ghost direct you to maybe a sister and she's not responding to you. Bro don't stress yourself, cool and give her space, but keep checking on her.

Time is a revealer , if it be by the spirit, she's yours but understand maturity and manner of presentation. Most of our ladies today lacks vision.

Some brothers don't know their vision, And you be amaze that this are the set of people who has big and flat screen television in their home.
A man who has television and lack vision called a distraction in the journey of destiny. When you join your life to the life of a man who lacks directions, vision. You are on your way to danger
Sister, before you say yes to a man, verify if this is a man who understand himself and know what hes doing.

Avaibility of your vision and his vision is what makes a way to your destination. When you engage yourself with a man who lack vision, You will forever swim in the realm of confusion.

Number 3 things that causes confusion in choosing life partner is undefine relationship with opposite sexs. You are a sister and out of your 10 friends, 8 are guys and all of them are your best and close friends lolz.

Criticize the above statement and go out of your house to ask those who did this how far
Sisters listen to me carefully. Many are praying unnesarry prayers today after they already given themselves the answers.You can't be close to opposite sex like chicken impelda and believe it's your level of free mode. To be continued tomorrow.

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