THERE IS NO OTHER, COMING OR FORGIVING. It's your decision.
)Learning to forgive is not easy, it is important to recognize that forgiveness is an action, a process that is carried out in a certain time, depending on the wound it causes, along with the spiritual preparation that the affected individual has and that for a Certain reason is able to forgive, regardless of the magnitude of the cause. Forgiveness frees us from a great emotional burden, calms anxiety, generates peace, tranquility, liberation and makes life more pleasant for us.
How to learn to forgive through Christ
True forgiveness comes through the help of God, who is the chief example of forgiveness.
- Ask God for help in the process of forgiveness, remember that He offered his son a horrible death to free us from sin, He knows our heart very well. Trust in the Lord, let us leave aside the pride, the rancor and the innumerable reasons that justify a negative behavior that sickens our mind and spirit, generating a remarkable physical deterioration.
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)Accepting that we are human therefore we are imperfect, we constantly sin and we also need that our mistakes be forgiven by other people that we have hurt in some way. In addition, God asks us in our Lord's Prayer to forgive our neighbor so that we can forgive ourselves of our sins.
Ask the person the reasons for their performance with you. There are cases of bitterness, suffering, intrigue, misunderstandings that make a person proceed with the one who has the least blame for their situation.
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)- Waiver of any desire for revenge. It is the domain of God. He alone knows what this person really deserves. Revenge will only make you feel better during a fleeting moment. But finally, it will make you feel much worse. Remember that people usually harvest what they sow.
The Bible does not allow personal revenge: "Revenge is mine, said the Lord, I will pay," but promoting justice is a matter apart from personal forgiveness.
)If the offensive behavior has a criminal connotation it may be appropriate to notify the authorities. This is especially important when behavior continues to occur and other people may be in danger. Each situation has to be considered in its proper measure and considering your own security. Remember that sometimes, even if you forgive, we can not stop the behavior. God will help you overcome that difficult time, not necessarily end it because you have forgiven. Jesus promises rewards to those who forgive "But I say to you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so you will be worthy children of your Father in heaven, who makes the sun rise on good and bad, and sends the rain on righteous and unfair, because if they love those who love them, what reward do they deserve? " God sacrificed his only son so you could enjoy your life.
@peraza82 forgiveness is not a feeling is a mandate given by God. If we want to be free we have to obey and forgive so that our father can also forgive us.