A CHANGE BEGINS WITH YOU IN THE HOME

in #steemchurch6 years ago


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I have a short story to share.

A woman was seeking counsel from different people concerning her husband but didn't get any solution to her problem. One day she met a psychologist because things were getting out of hands,she confided in him saying she hates her husband and intend to divorce him,that she wants to hurt him in every way. The psychologist replied to her saying "i will advise you start showering your husband with so much care and compliments,when you see that you have become inseparable to him,when you think you love him devotedly,then you can start the divorce action,this will be the way out to divorce him.


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After some months the woman visited the psychologist to tell the man that all is now well in her home,that she followed all the advice that he gave her.The psychologist replied very good,now is the best time to file for the divorce,The woman said "Never will i divorce my husband,i love him dearly".

Broken/failed marriages begin to be mended when one of the partners is willing to ask the lord for help,Even if you think your spouse is wrong,when God presence is with you he will also open your eyes to see your own short comings too,you will be able to know where you have failed in your home and ask God to change you.Love God the more ,let bad advise not destroy your home ,you may not be lucky to met a good person like the psychologist that advised the woman in a good way.
Stop trying to change your spouse ,let God change you.

Thanks for reading ,you can read my older post here where i started the series about divorce.
https://steemit.com/steemchurch/@vik3/what-did-god-say-about-divorce

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Change begins when we own up to our own shortcomings and work hard to be better.

Good Communication, kindness and tolerance also help in marriage.

Thank You for your contribution @vik3.

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We mice call this 'Reverse Psychology' vik3. Nice post!

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when God presence is with you he will also open your eyes to see your own short comings too,you will be able to know where you have failed in your home and ask God to change you.

I love this part the most. Thank you

You are welcome

Deut 2:1-3 Then we turned, and took our journey into the wilderness by the way of the Red sea, as the LORD spake unto me: and we compassed mount Seir many days. 2 And the LORD spake unto me, saying,
3 Ye have compassed this mountain lplacnough: turn you northward.
You’ve compassed this mountain long enough turn you northward.
I came to this house with a word in my spirit (change).
God said this is a season of change, major change.
He said prophesy and tell my people change is coming, major shifts are going to be taking place.
God said: to prophesy change so his people could participate and cooperate with him in the process.

Stop trying to change your spouse ,let God change you.

This got me.
Thanks for sharing with us.

This is a wonderful and informative post. failed marriages begin to be mended when one of the partners is willing to ask the lord for help,Even if you think your spouse is wrong,when God presence is with you he will also open your eyes to see your own short comings too,you will be able to know where you have failed in your home and ask God to change you. Love God the more ,let bad advise not destroy your home ,you may not be lucky to met a good person like the psychologist that advised the woman in a good way. Stop trying to change your spouse ,let God change you. Thanks for sharing

Change starts when we claim up to our own particular weaknesses and endeavor to be better.

Great Communication, thoughtfulness and resilience additionally help in marriage.

Much obliged to You for your commitment @vik3.

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This is a magnificent and educational post. fizzled relational unions start to be patched when one of the accomplices will approach the ruler for help,Even on the off chance that you think your mate is wrong,when God nearness is with you he will likewise open your eyes to see your own inadequacies too,you will have the capacity to know where you have flopped in your home and request that God change you. Love God the more ,let awful prompt not wreck your home ,you may not be fortunate to met a decent individual like the analyst that exhorted the lady positively. Quit attempting to change your mate ,let God change you. A debt of gratitude is in order for sharing

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