Am I Really Selfish 😐😐 ??

in #steemit6 years ago (edited)

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Hello All Dear Steemit Friends,


So Friends from last few days iam continuously receiving Hate from some Steemit members who try to contact me on Steemit.chat,

So from last few day iam getting so many upvote requests from different different Steemit users and that's totally normal because we all do these types of things in our starting days and i never replied to anyone rudely,so i just ignore these types of requests but sometimes i also opened their requested posts and upvote them if i like their post,

But people take this in a wrong way because now those people who got my upvote through their upvote request are regularly sending me their links and ask me for upvote 😐 i mean is it the right way ??

So i just keep ignoring them but some of them got frustrated on me and send me messages like - "You are Rude", "You are just an another Selfish Guy", "You are only supporting selected people and Don't want the good of this platform", etc...

So is this the right way to talk with someone who already helped you before by giving you an upvote and just because you are not getting my upvote each time then you are calling me that "I Am Selfish".😐

Well iam really sad because of these types of response from fellow steemians because i know iam doing my best to keep as many Steemians motivated as possible and after all this iam getting just Hate from others.


So guys i just want to ask you that "Am ai Really Selfish"?? , Please share your thoughts about my work in the comments below and don't worry iam not going to downvote to any heater because i just wants to know your opinions,so without any tension leave you true Comments 😇


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nope I just dont think so!

Thanks buddy 😇

I simply avoid responding to people who repeatedly ask for upvotes or simply msg to say hello and drop their link in the next text. I get a TON of those msgs everyday. Can't help it if their feelings are hurt.

Hmm that's right buddy because their are a lot of Minnows who wants upvotes on their post but unfortunately we only have a limited amount of voting power per day,so we have to use it wisely 😇 people on Steemit needs to grow up otherwise they are not going to survive here.

no you are not! nobody is obliged to give you votes, and if you voted for someone, they should be grateful!!

Thanks for your reply dear Alla and Ivar and yup you are right and i hope these types of steemians should learn from you that Upvoting someone is our own decision and no one can can force us to give them upvote.

You are not selfish, because there is a limit to how much you can upvote- you can't endlessly upvote everyone on steemit. You wouldn't even have the time. The best strategy is to take a look at the post, and if you like it then upvote. People who don't understand this are the selfish ones because they are only thinking about their posts.

Hmm that's right and i think people on Steemit needs to be grow up because they just want upvote without even Creating a good content for the community.

The whining and complaining is over the top.

We are being raided by people who do not want to earn their way into the platform. They just want to show up and take.

Yup you are true but these people don't know how does it feels when we forced someone without their will, it's really frustrating.

No, you are not selfish !
But when we expect from someone for something and if that person don't complete than these types of frustration is normal.
Expection has played big role here .

So don't worry , just do your work honestly.
And fellow steemians just want support , because here a tuff competion and they consider you as your hope .

So don't mind .

Well that's why i try to keep myself cool all the time because i cannot change someone's thinking and if they expect from me then they should also need to give me a good reason why should i Support them because if they have a good content then their is no need to ask from me for Support.

Yeah ! Right 😇

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I believe you are far from selfish. As everybody else, you have limited voting power and it is simply not possible to upvote everybody who asks for it. I know some users who flag people who ask for upvotes. And I would definitely flag people who insult me.

I think on steemit, more than on other social networks, respect is the basis currency to make this a nice place.

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