STOP WORRYING, IT IS OF NO USE.

 Today I want to tell you a story about how you should let go of your worries is life. 

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There is an old saying that says "if you worry you die if you do not worry you die so why worry." 
There was a Professor who taught stress release to a class. He had a glass filled with water that he was carrying around. He said to the class, and they all thought he was going to say is my glass half full or half empty. Then they were very surprised that he did not say that. 

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He asked them, how heavy do you think my glass is and everyone took a guess. Then he laughed and said it does not matter, because the longer I carry  around this glass, the more tired I will get and the heavier the glass will become. But in reality it still weighs the same.
That is just like it works in life, if you worry and never stop it just gets worse. 

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So work out your problem and then forget all about it. 
If you cannot work it out find someone to help you, as this is something that can make your life unbearable. 

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If we pray and ask God to help us, in his time he will also fix your worries. 
But worrying is very bad for your health and it gets you nowhere. 
I have been married to my husband for 49 years and the day we got married we decided if something bother us we will work it out, when the kids are in bed and, after that we will never talk or think about it again.

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I can assure you we have not had many nights to talk about our problems, because we consider each other’s feelings. That is also why it works, but as life is there does sometimes happen something we do not agree on, and then we work it out before we go to sleep. 
So stop carrying that glass and get rid of it as there is no reason to go through life unhappy.

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We only have one chance in life to do the right thing, and if it worries you just fix it. 
I cannot believe how many people I know who has divorced, and most of it is about nothing that they can remember.
In this process so many people get hurt and it may just be for something so stupid that you cannot believe it.

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Then for those people who are not married yet, always remember if it is at all possible, marry your best friend. When you get old, you can still have lovely conversations as you are still best friends. 
We all get aches and pains but we help one another and that does make it so much easier. Sometimes, when one passes over the other does not take long to follow. 

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It usually happens when you have been married for a long time. It is not always like that but it does happen. So please love one another, and just try your best because life is short. 
No one wants anything more than that from his or her partner. 
The bible also tells us if we get married we do become one. Maybe that is why it is so difficult for the one staying behind to go on without the other.

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Have a wonderful day from me and great happiness.