SCHOOL FOR PARENTS: The Montessori methods will help to face the anger and nervousness of the children!

in #steemiteducation5 years ago (edited)

According to M. Montessori, emotions and socialization must go hand in hand. And here, in parenting, of course, parents play the leading role.



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Montessori pedagogical methods are very famous: someone admires them, someone criticizes them. This is a very interesting approach that can be used not only in the classroom, but also at home (at the family level), in daily life, raising your children.

Today I want to talk with you about the nervousness of children, about anger, about emotions that can not control, direct and sometimes even understand.

One of the most useful concepts, whose author was Maria Montessori, are the so-called "sensible periods". From the moment of birth to the age of 6 years, children experience what she calls "windows of opportunity".

These are the moments in which they manifest an innate ability to learn, acquire new skills and "hone their skills". And it is precisely at this time that you must teach them to manage their emotions and understand them, because this is a very complex spiritual world, which often simply "overwhelms" small people.

And today we will see some simple strategies.

The Montessori pedagogy to manage the anger and nervousness of children.


All, more or less, imagine what focuses and focuses on Montessori educational centers.



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They try in all ways to develop independence in the child, such autonomy, where he himself will be responsible for their education. Everything depends on the curiosity, the curiosity of the child and his interaction with other people and the means offered.

But many parents wonder how the Montessori method can be useful in the "primary" environment, with the closest people in the family. But the answer is on the surface: this is where children become familiar with basic educational principles.

Let's see some tips that can be very useful for us in times of anger of our children:


Socio-emotional education


Maria Montessori never spoke only about education or emotional intelligence in its purest form. For a famous teacher, the concepts of "socialization" and "emotions" are inextricably linked and should go hand in hand.



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At the moment when a child has a tantrum, he feels that the social environment does not meet his expectations:




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  • You can not get what you want, you are very angry, offended and easily irritated, you simply can not postpone the satisfaction of your "desire" ... That is what it means to cry, scream and, sometimes, give blows.
  • Emotions occur in a child when interacting with adults or with other children, this is a social-emotional context where one can not separate from the other.
  • Although many people criticize the Montessori method to grant freedom and independence to a child, we must not forget something very important, fundamental:
An adult is always a "guide" and a "guide", he defines and promotes learning, is an example to follow.
  • Therefore, sensitive periods (from birth to 6 years) are key, we must be close to our children, give them answers to each question and be attentive to each of their emotions.

What should you consider to handle the emotional world of the child?


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  • Never neglect the words and do not ignore the behavior of your child. Do not compare it with anyone. All this leads to an even greater anger and resentment in him.
  • Make sure your child is always safe. I am sure that at any time you can talk to you or open another piece of our vast world, I am sure you can communicate with other children, play with them and create something, while trusting someone and with respect.
  • Allow your child to do evil sometimes. Help him with your advice, but let him correct his mistakes. After all, children have to do things for themselves to feel capable of something, this improves their self-esteem.
  • When a child expresses anger or anger, it means that there is something that can not be expressed in words (or simply does not know) and, therefore, we must find out the reason and try to understand.
That is why we, the parents, must educate our children and communicate with them calmly and with patience. Never ignore these states of anxiety or nervousness in your children, especially if they are still very small. It is necessary to find the cause of this condition and propose a solution to the problem.

Calm down, just calm down

In recent years, the so-called "calming banks" have become very popular. They help to overcome anxiety and relieve stress in children. But now we must clarify a bit about its purpose and how to use them correctly.



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  • "Banks of calm" - is, above all, a visual stimulant. The child can focus their attention on moving flashes for a while.
  • These "sedatives" can only be used in the presence of an adult.
  • We can, for example, take the child to the crib every night and, while he is studying this topic, ask him how he spent the day, what worries him, if he is afraid, what he likes and does not like.
  • And these questions must be formulated with all sincerity, in no case condemn the child, should not be an interrogation, but a game that contributes to the emotional release of the child.
These peace benches are a very simple resource that can really help you in many ways. And if you want to create it yourself, at home, be sure to visit my blog, soon I will be explaining, how to make a shiny bottle.

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