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All parents get angry from time to time, it is something as normal as natural. Disciplining children is not an easy task and sometimes we feel emotions overflow us.

We must have some strategies to control anger and that children can grow emotionally healthy.
In the midst of stress you may unknowingly shout at your child or speak to him in a bad way. You are human but it is not justified that you do it continuously. In our quieter moments, we know very well that we can handle any parenting challenge as long as we are calm.

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But in the storm of our anger we feel we have the right to show our children's anger. But no matter how bad our behavior seems to be, we must control our thoughts in order to avoid being out of control. A scream full of anger and physical and verbal violence can take place in just 2 minutes.

When your child has a fit of anger, you should know that you should never act while you are angry even if you have an urgent need to do so to teach your child a lesson. It is the anger that makes you think like that and it is not a lesson that you will transmit to him.

Never yell at your child and if you really want to do it, get in a car with the windows closed and scream everything you want where nobody can hear you.

To control anger properly is to mature, at whatever age.

STRATEGIES TO CONTROL THE IRA

-Establish limits to the child

• Leave the place: if your son is old enough to leave him alone, it is better to leave until he calms down and controls his anger.
  -Control-control-control

When calming the child, we as parents must be controlled at that time so that the child can drain the anger.
Children also get angry when they feel threatened and have adverse reactions ranging from silence or block, a peaceful response to anger or the typical tantrums. Anger in children must be controlled from a young age. If some days when we take him to school in the morning he starts crying and kicking because he does not want to go to class, we have to consider that our son has an attack of anger. We must know how to control the situation so uncomfortable

EXAMPLE: If we as parents are not able to control our anger, how are we going to get our children to do it? We have to set an example and learn to control ourselves, if we shout to our children habitually our children will imitate us in case of any problem. However, if we are calm even when we are angry, they will learn to control their anger.

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REFLECTION

We parents have to understand that our children learn from an early age to control their anger. Although it seems simple, it often becomes a complicated task. The first step is to recognize that our son has these fits of anger and how to handle the situation.