Raising a child is very difficult. This is a complicated process that requires a competent approach. Often, many mothers can hear phrases like this: "What a mischievous child! We must, resume your education!".

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Why? Because to educate a child you must start from birth, and not try to do it when you have already completed the first stage of your life and the absence of this same ignorance. It is known that personality traits and personal qualities are established in five years. It only depends on the family, the type of person the child will be, as an adult. Parents always have the task of investing in kindness, courtesy, the desire to help those in need, obedience and many other positive qualities.

SourceHow to do it correctly and, most importantly, how? In fact, a recipe for all parents simply does not exist. Everything depends on the individual characteristics of the baby and his father and mother. However, there are a series of basic rules that must be met every day. It is also important to review communication within the family. If the father and mother are not respected, and do other bad and immoral things, then the child will perceive that behavior as the norm, therefore, he will grow like his parents. And in this case it will be impossible to reeducate it.

Rules of communication with the child

1. It is important to remain calm.

Even if the mother is a very emotional and moody person, in the presence of her child, she should be calm, not screaming and even more, so do not grab her roughly by the hand. Maybe, this rule is the most important. And it does not matter the age of the child. When the child is very small, with loud cries, he can start crying in fear. When you are five years old, you can perceive them with protest, this depends to a great extent on your individual characteristics of character.

In this case, the baby will start screaming or crying, or he will be offended. The consequences of such treatment with the child will not be long: after a short time, he will become very irritable, disobedient. Of course, because he models the behavior of the parents and, therefore, behaves in the same way as they do. It will also have a negative effect on your nervous system.

2. Show a good example.

As already mentioned, children model the behavior of adults. Parents are an example of imitation for them. Who better than them can show how to behave in this world? In education, you need to show astuteness. Why not take advantage of this cute child imitation feature and not regularly show good examples? For example, you can do some activities such as: drawing, sewing and showing your daughter or son how to dedicate time to such an activity.

Unfortunately, adults do not always show good examples. You can often hear such gross words of children that not all adults know. Children copy adults very accurately, so it is important to behave (at least with the baby) so that the child shows how to behave correctly.

3. Observe the requirements unit.

It is important that all the adults around the child are equally strict and affectionate with him. In any case, it should not allow, for example, that the father forbid the baby to watch television, and mother, on the contrary, encouraged it. In no case should we say: "It is impossible, because the Pope forbids it".

It is important to explain the cause to the child. Otherwise, he will perceive a person who constantly forbids him as an enemy.

In conclusion

It is necessary that the implementation of these rules becomes a habit. The main thing is to love your child and address the problem of his education with wisdom

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Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish them with the rod, they will not die.Proverbs 23:13

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