We All Have One VI, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4 and part 5
Like I was saying before sharing that story, sometimes we are this lucky, and a lot of times most of us are not that lucky. Not because we lacked the will to go through with it, but because by divine providence, we just stopped.
What brought about this post was about a lady I recently read about on Leke Alder’s page. She had a boyfriend then and they did stuffs together. You know the things we do in the heat of the moment? She made a sex tape with her boyfriend then and now that they are no longer together, the guy threatened to release the sex tape. The funny part of the story was, she was in year one then and she was 19 years old and she fell in love with a part four medical student who was 24 years old at that time. The relationship was actually an exploitative one as I read, as this lady was a bit well to do. This guy took her car, took her money, took her virginity and did all manner of sex styles with her, and that wasn’t enough, and now she is threatening to release their sex tape just when he gathered that she would be getting married soon. Exploitation is on the card here.
She fell so hard that time and she had no time to think. She did everything with innocence and now she wish she never met the guy. The past has been brought to the surface and now she doesn’t know what to do. The past came to haunt her and I think she hasn’t forgiven herself too because it is obvious this new guy she is about to marry doesn’t even know about this aspect of her past.
A lot of times we like to keep our past buried rather than try to heal from it. We need to heal from it but the moment we keep it locked up in the past, buried and thinking no one would remember, we start living in fear of it. The past always have a strong hold on us.
This ex introduced her to sex. He's a predator obviously as his subsequent actions have proven. No father would pray for this kind of man for his daughter.
…to be continued…
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Luck is not for everyone And this guy is an intelligent and talented
Again the guy came back to her life to exploit once again...
All your previous posts related to relationship, trust, faith comes into play here..while the girl fallen for the guy in her tender age..the guy has exploiting her of all her belonging..now he xame back to spoil her marriage. Pretty difficult in the girls part to move ahead in this peculiar situation. However as she was getting into a new relation she should have shared about her past with the new guy...at least to make future peaceful and noone to spoil her marriage....things could have been totally different
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Hi @olawalium ,
Yes he is a worst predator. I hate these kinds of Men who try to use blackmale .they both enjoyed and know he is misusing the video threatening her to release it. It will destroy the future of her.ladies Should avoid this type of men.
You have spoken my mind. This guy is a predator. He used this lady's innocence against her and despite all he did against her, she stayed until she has had enough. He really ia blackmailing this lady with her past and that's bad.
I think best thing for her is to tell her present boyfriend everything that happen maybe he would love her for who she is and take her as she is, even if the ex boyfriend release the sex tape, it may not have any affect on them