Exercising The 4th Is Exhausting

in #story6 years ago (edited)

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I recently shared a story about the time I dialed 9-1-1 in the middle of nowhere. There’s a section in that post where the police officer wanted to search my vehicle and I complied. What I said was: “I said no once, BIG mistake, that’s a post for a later date.” Welcome to a later date - This is the time I said no.

It’s near the end of 2008, I’m building Aria Resort & Casino in Las Vegas, Nevada USA. That was the first time I lived in Las Vegas.

My mother watched my dog for me that year, she loved it when I needed her to watch The Rook. She knew by doing so she’d see me regularly, as well as daily phone calls from me checking in “how’s Rook?” At the time she was only 90 miles from Las Vegas - It worked out great for everyone.

A Friday after work: I rolled onto Interstate 40 toward Kingman, Arizona USA, exiting Highway 95, the route leading to and from Las Vegas. The interstate is two lanes, the on-ramp is a single, narrow lane. I know my mothers exit is about 10 miles ahead and there’s a semi truck in the slow lane. I rolled onto the interstate with the intention of passing the semi truck but when I looked over my shoulder there’s a police car approaching in the next lane and he’s approaching fast! I didn’t see him:

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To avoid obstructing the cop car’s high speed, I slowed down and got back behind the semi truck. The cop was going so fast, he passed me before he was able to slow down enough to get behind me. As soon as he got behind me, he hit his sirens, I pulled over:


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I know the routine: Vehicle is turned off. Window is rolled down. Hands are in the ‘10 n 2 position’ on the steering wheel. The very first words out of his mouth are “nice tattoos” and continued by asking me “what’s the big hurry that made you nearly run me off the road back there?” ..disclaimer: The art of ‘kill’em with kindness’ wasn’t introduced to me yet.

“I didn’t cut you off, I was going to pass the semi truck but I didn’t see you because you were going so fast!” He told me “step out of the vehicle please.” “Step out for what?” He instructed me to grab my license, registration, proof of insurance and exit the vehicle because it isn’t safe for him to stand on the side of the Interstate. I grabbed my documents and met him on the other side of our vehicles - His police cruiser is now shielding us from traffic.

I handed him my documents, he said “wait right here” and sat back down in his police cruiser. I have a clean record so within a few minutes he got out of his car and handed my documents back to me. “What brings you out here?” I told him the whole shpeel; working in Vegas, mom watching dog, etc. His line of questioning immediately changed: “Do you have any guns in the car?” “What? No.” I assumed he asked me that question because Nevada is a right to carry state. “No, I don’t have any guns in the car, I’m just trying to hang out with my dog for the weekend.” He told me to hold my arm out, “let me see your hand.” He held my hand and put his fingers on my wrist:

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“Why is your heart beating so fast?” “Because you’re a cop.” He asked “do I make you nervous?” “Of course!” I pointed to the guns on his belt, “you have those things and now we’re holding hands on the side of the highway and I haven’t broken any laws.” He said “don’t move” and retrieved a piece of paper from the dash of his car.

We stood at the front of his car and he’s holding down a piece of paper on the hood of the cruiser, trying to hand me a pen, explaining to me why I needed to sign it. He said it’s a document that grants him the right to search my vehicle; “if you don’t have any guns in the car, you don’t have anything to worry about.” I told him “I’m not signing it.” He told me to comply - I refused. “No. It’s my car and I don’t want you to search it?” He asked me if I was hiding something. I told him “no, I just don’t want you in my car.” He insisted I comply or he’ll radio his captain and the captain has the authority to grant the search. I said “call him.” He asked me a few more times with different words. “No. I don’t care how you word the question, I’m not signing that piece of paper.” “If you don’t have anything to hide, just sign it, I’ll search your car and you’ll be on your way.” “No. Call your boss.” He wanted me to sit in the back seat of his police cruiser while he made the call. “No way!”

Now he’s ordering me to sit in the back of his police car while he made the call - I refused. We went back and forth several times “no, I’m not sitting in the back of your car!” He eventually gave me the option of sitting in the front passenger seat, I complied. He left the door open while he radio’d his captain - The captain arrived in less than 5 minutes.

The captains police cruiser was identical, both cars had the same markings and colors, the officers had matching uniforms, matching shoes etc. but the captain’s wearing a different hat. The new officer has a round brim that goes all the way around his hat, shading his ears and face. That’s the only difference my untrained eye detected:

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They shook hands, briefed each other etc. The new officer motioned for me to exit the cop car and now the three of us are standing in front of the car, shielded from traffic, on the side of Interstate 40. The captain asked me why I refused to sign the search release. “Because I want to go see my dog, I’m not doing anything wrong, it’s my car and I don’t want you to search it.” He looked at the original officer “do you have probable cause?” “He was swerving and his heart rate is rapid.” Without any hesitation, the captain said “Ok! Search his vehicle.” I said “that’s it?! That’s all it takes?! All he has to do is tell you I was swerving and now you have the right to search my car??”

I no longer had the option of waiting in the front seat of the police car. Now I’m being escorted to the back of the police car by both officers, I’m being told to “calm down” while one held the door open and the other made sure I didn’t hit my head as they placed me in the back seat of the police car. They closed the door and now I’m locked in - They never even searched my pockets!

Those cops searched every inch of that car. I didn’t realize the extent of their search until I was released from the back seat. I watched one of them empty out all of my games in the trunk of my car.

He emptied out my chess board, cribbage board, cards, checkers, backgammon, dominoes, all inside the trunk of my car. (strategy games, specifically chess, it’s a sickness, that’s a post for a later date) He removed the speakers from the trunk, set the box on the side of the highway and I saw him remove the carpet from the trunk, the spare tire, everything inside the spare tire compartment and he continued going through the trunk while the other guy is searching inside the car. I couldn’t see what was happening inside the car through the tinted windows.

It lasted quite awhile, those cops were thorough, I was locked in the back of that cop car the entire time. I was back there at least 20 minutes before the “captain” finally got in his squad car and took off. The original officer came back to me and opened the door to let me out. “Your vehicle’s been cleared, you’re free to go see your dog now” and motioned for me to go to my car. From where we were standing I could see my car was in a million pieces, I asked him “are you going to put my car back together?!” “No” he told me “but I’ll wait right here with my lights so you can:

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I looked at the speakers laying on the side of the highway, both passenger doors are still wide open, the lights are all on and the vehicle is in complete disarray. I didn’t say anything else, I just walked toward the car. The first thing I noticed was the mess of games in the trunk. They destroyed my things. I began putting the trunk back together and the police officer took off! He actually peeled out on the side of the highway and left a cloud of dust for me as he sped off. I was never issued a citation nor was I ever asked to empty my pockets. I wasn’t even searched before they locked me in the back seat of the police cruiser. All I did was avoid cutting off a police car that was approaching me really fast on the highway - That was my first mistake. But when I refused to let the officer search my car - That was mistake #2. That’s when things got messy, tossed, damaged and ruined.

Putting my trunk back together was the easy part. That duo of officers destroyed that car. It was a Saturn, nothing fancy, a 4-door commuter car but it was new at the time and paid for and it wasn’t theirs. They tore all four door panels off of the doors - “Tore.” They ripped the plastic behind the door panels off, too, and ripped the speakers out of the doors - “Ripped.” They tore out the entire headliner and stuffed the shredded pieces on the passenger floor board, there wasn’t a fabric of foam left on the ceiling of that car. They removed the center console from the car without tools, they broke it, the two or three bolts that held it down were ripped through the plastic and ruined. The door runners between the seats and the doors, typically hard plastic to secure the carpet, held down by factory metal clips - They broke all four of those too.

They did a lot of damage to the interior of that car. I ended up putting a bunch more miles on the vehicle but I never replaced the headliner. It was miserable inside that thing in the summer! The day I totaled that car all four door panels were held on by the tech screws I screwed them back on with - I had to drill new holes in the doors. I ended up putting the center console back together with bigger bolts and I had to re-thread the factory mounting hardware. The door runners never got replaced because I couldn’t just replace the broken plastic clips. That was about the same time General Motors was closing the doors on Saturn and I would’ve had to order the runners, hardware, etc and it just didn’t seem worth it to me.

I just comply now! That’s why I complied when the police officer hassled me in the middle of nowhere. I said no once, been there - done that, it didn’t work out! Should I get stopped today, I mirror the routine: Vehicle off - check. Window down - check. Hands in the ‘10 & 2’ position - check. If they want to search my car though, I don’t say no anymore, now I kill’em with kindness. If they want to search my vehicle today, I’ll step aside, roll out the red carpet for them, patiently wait and pretend there’s nowhere I’d rather be: “Yes sir, officer, I thought you’d never ask, sir!”

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Man this made me mad. Similar situation happened to me. I know a lot of good people who wear the uniform so was always extra respectful which ended up not making a difference when this almost exact thing happened to me. I thought about taking them to court but was quickly told and figured it wouldn’t be worth it.

I have more of these stories actually, it sucks! You’re right about court though, the same person that signs the judges check signs the police officers check. We don’t stand a chance!

I have some cool cop stories, too, though! Not as many but I have some. There’s absolutely some good uniforms out there, great! I’m sure of it...

Thanks a lot for stopping by @geneeverett, I appreciate it! Here’s to 57 hundred. 🥂

I'm going to have to come back to read this as I don't have the time at the moment, but I just have to say how beautiful this looks with your paragraphs all aligned! You are one smart dog :)

oops, I meant dude!

Yes!! Feel free to stop back by and tell me what you think.. it’s kind of a long one. What you think about this post of course, not the me chasing my tail part.

These are them, the one’s, the paragraph’s, couldn’t have done without you @mirrors!

Thank you @lynncoyle1, pleasure to see you again!

I hate this story, it makes me so mad that people feel they can treat others in any way they feel. The lack of human connection, protecting and serving the people of the community here is reprehensible. I’m sorry you have stories that look and sound like this, hopefully things will look a little differently when we are somewhere else. Remember, the high road (killing them with kindness road) isn’t for the weak.

All those guns and badges can’t get an “I do” from a 10! You’re still always so calm and cool every time we go through a checkpoint or border crossing.. not me!

Thank you beautifullest.


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Yeah this is what happens when you give way too much power to the police. The cops don't understand that they are being feared for the wrong reasons, not respected.
I don't want to oversimplify, because there's good cops out there, but the older I get , the less I like confrontations and it always ends the same way
That being said, if you even carry weed on your , hide them under your balls in your underwear, and be overly relaxed about everything.
Start cracking up jokes and eventually it runs all smooth. "Sure officer, search my car, the weed in on me anyway"

Hey Ed, I don’t know if you got a chance to check out the prequel to this one? 9-1-1 In The Middle Of Nowhere. Bro it’s far from generating funds, no more payouts and I’m pretty sure we know eachother better than that by now.

I posted it during the time your internet was down, if I’m not mistaken. Good morning sir! Pardon the intrusion.

How dare thou !! Intrusion !!!!!Heeeelp!

Lol I've just read it and wrote a novel :) for you

They were given a lot of authority at such young ages too. Over time I think we’re seeing the negative results.

You’re absolutely right, Ed. Strike up conversation, laugh, ‘something,’ anything! I learned quickly if I pick up on what they’re interested in, regardless if I’m even familiar with it, I’ll charge full speed toward it. Ex: If they say they have kids.... ok dude I’m instantly the hallway monitor at elementary school, PTA organizer, whatever they want to hear!

Thanks a lot for stopping by @edprivat! Happy Friday to you, lionmom, the little ones, pets and whoever else you’re feeding!

Man talk about power of the badge going to their head. We get them like that over here too. They seem to think their gods or something.

I hope there is never a next time, but just in case, keep a little tool kit in your car. Just the basics, pliers, screwdriver, couple of spanners. Then when they ask 'Can I Search Your Car?' - Just pull out the tools and reply "Sure, but what have you lost... I'll help you look!"

Laugh out loud! Ya perfect, “I’ve been hanging onto these for this exact scenario!” I’m always laughing at your comments/posts.. good times!

Maybe one of these weeks you and I could try a comedy thing maybe?? Enter in the same week or something, that might be fun. Let’s see what that mention does.

Thanks a lot for stopping by @sivehead, it’s always nice to hear from you.

A comedy thing aye?!... umm, I might have something brewing, I'll have to get back to you when it's closer to being ready.

Wow @dandays, I finally got a chance to read this! What a bunch of BS!! It's like it happened to me; I was just telling this story to Brian, and he's "calm down Lynn, it's ok". Me: "calm down?, calm down?!! That isn't fair!!!" haha I'm totally emotionally invested here now @dandays! I know some would agree, but I'm with you now; just comply and get it over with; a bit of a bend over and take it, but such is life it seems with the cops in the US.

deep breath

Ok, so how's Rook these days? haha Brian and I have been to Vegas numerous times, but once did a cross country road trip and noticed Henderson for the first time, outside of Vegas. Love that little place.

Ok, I'm totally calm now and am going to submit your post to c-squared in the hopes that they pay you a little visit :)

Before I forget to say it.. it sure is nice having your support @lynncoyle1! I can’t thank you enough. I got a great idea.. let’s rock this Steemit platform!

The Rook - RIP. She made it to 10 years, 11 months. iheart german shepherds! I’ve yet to get another one, I’ve been dogless (it’s a word!!) for nearly 5 years now. I can feel a near one in the new future. =} Check you out asking about Rook when it’s me who should be asking about Brian. “How’s Brain?!”

Thank you so much for.. where do I start? Thank you for taking the time to read my work! Thank you a bajillion Times for supporting! Last but not least, thanks a lot for stopping by @lynncoyle1, happy Friday to you and Brian both!

You are most welcome for what little support I can offer :)

awww Rook! Almost 11 for a big Shep; that's pretty good! My big lab cross was almost 13 when I put him down almost 3 years ago now. I still miss him though and think of him every time I open a cat tin of food and throw it away because Max used to take it from me and go to his bed to lick the can clean:) but sigh, not sure yet if I want one right now. I hope you get a pup than I can just live vicariously through you and yours!

My wife and I are actually preparing for our next move. We’re going to go hop around a couple countries for a few year, we’ll be boarding that first one way plane in ‘about’ 2n1/2 months, so exciting! So getting another dog right now would be irresponsible. I’ve been waiting patiently for a really long time and I know it has to be getting closer! I really love Costa Rica so we’re going to try to avoid going there for a couple of years, once I’m there I’m done. As of now, that’s roughly what my time frame looks like before I can go meet my new best friend.

Good morning from Los Angeles, Ca. @lynncoyle1, happy Saturday to you and yours, enjoy this weekend woulda ya?!

@dandays, "one way plane" ... music to my ears 😅 That's awesome you guys are doing that! I've never been to Costa Rica but have a friend there who keeps inviting me; it's on my to-do list :) Where are you guys starting out then? And yes, you've got to wait to you're "finished" before you get that pup!

Good evening from Mexico! and happy Saturday to you as well. Hope you guys had a great day, and of course I'm enjoying this weekend 😎

Make sure you check that one off your to-do list. And when you do, you know where to find me, the first round’s on us!

Well, we’re going to post or travels so I can’t give away anything passed the first stop and without giving away too much, I’ll just say the first one starts with Indo and ends with Knees.. ya! :Sh!:

Will do! That sounds awesome! And the same goes here if you guys ever find yourself in Playa del Carmen! :)

haha your secret is safe with me :)

I disagree. Put the phone onto video and stand on your rights. Law enforcement is not here to find crime it is to solve crime. Without a crime they have no authority to tell a citizen what to do anymore than you or I. They can ask. You can say no. You might not sign the check but you pay their salary and they need to remember that.

I’m sure you’re a lot more familiar with the in’s and out’s than I am, all I have is personal events. This is the highway one, there’s a few more I’m sure I’ll tell, like the one where I asked the officer to speak into my phone and they threw my phone and my buddy and his girl’s phone in the Lake, then took five of us..... well, I don’t want to spoil the ending!

Hey thanks a lot for stopping by @tonytoast!

Greetings. What should be done and what I would actually do could very well be quite different. Each encounter needs to be assessed on its own script. Sometimes it's "yes sir, no sir, whatever you say sir(or ma'am)" . I've been IN prison and I would like to stay OUT. I'm familiar with the knowledge that, at times, if I open my mouth for anything other than to swallow their pride (figuratively) it will become apparent that yes, I am at that very moment Criming.
As infuriating as the story was it is highly interesting and well written. Would like to hear the rest of the "phones in lake" story.

Thank you @tonytoast, I really appreciate reading this first thing in the morning. You touched on a lot of excellent points, it’s no secret you and I have a lot in common. Yes’ir I haven’t been IN since just before Y2K, I’m continuously practicing.

I have a couple stories I would like to share at some point my friend, believe it or not, they’re not all bad. I actually have a couple of stories where my white skin and my white skin only skated me right through.

Thanks a lot for stopping by @tonytoast. I appreciate the support. Happy Friday to you and yours!

Good morning from Los Angeles @tonytoast. Hey man, a friend of mine just requested the prequel to this post and I thought about you. I don’t know if you already checked it out, no worries about upvoting it since it’s beyond the 7 days anyhow. I’m not interested in Upvotes dude but if you’re interested in why I comply anymore, here’s one you might find interesting.

Happy Sunday! 9-1-1 In The Middle Of Nowhere.

Terrible 😳

Thanks a lot for stopping by @volcandemorcilla!

Thanks for dropping me that link @nutritree, I don’t believe any President has my best interest in mind regardless of the letter next to their name on an election ballot.

Hey this is the prequel to this post: 9-1-1 In The Middle Of Nowhere. It’s far beyond payday, no need to upvote it or anything but if you’d like to no why I roll out red carpets for cops when they want to search my car, it’s in that post!

Thanks a lot for stopping by @nutritree!

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That’s interesting, I just clicked on it and went right to it. Here, I’ll attach it without a hyperlink, hopefully this works. Happy Friday!

https://steemit.com/story/@dandays/9-1-1-in-the-middle-of-nowhere

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