9 clear signals that it's time to change
Life is change and continuous movement. Being behind that pace is a choice. No chance, but a choice that determines your fate. The road may be long, but it is open to anyone who wishes to take it, starting a small step forward.
That's what blogger Mark thinks. He lists 9 indicators that he says indicate if a person is stagnant and needs change:
You have not taken responsibility for the circumstances in which you are. Too many people blame bad luck or bad luck for the situation where the mistakes made earlier are. Less recognize that their situation is a direct consequence of the choices they have made.
You have given in to your fears. Remember that letting them manage our lives is disturbing and unnecessary. Especially when we think of an important fact: every fear is the fruit of our imagination.
Continue to ignore your inner voice. You push what you naturally call. You do not feel really alive. You do not live your own way. You meet the expectations of others.
You are accustomed to the negative. Not what you watch is important, but what you see. The biggest wall you need to climb in life is the one you've built in your mind. If you do not control your point of view, it will control you. Bad feelings are like weeds. If you do not remove them from root, they will continue to grow. So take control of your destiny. Believe in yourself. Ignore those who discourage you. Avoid negative people, places, things, and habits.
You do not appreciate what you have. You probably wake up in the morning with some pain. But you wake up. You've seen better days. But you've seen even worse. You may not have everything you want at the moment, but you have everything you need to move on. Life is not fair and not perfect, but it is certainly good.
Worry about time that no longer exists. One can not improve his condition today if he lives in the past. Whatever may have happened and should have happened, it does not matter. This moment here and now is what you have. No problem not knowing all the answers. In fact you will never know them. Just continue your journey, focus on the present, do your best, and trust the process.
Continue to look for happiness outside of yourself. Enlightenment is not the accumulation of knowledge. It is the full awareness of who you are at the moment.
Still looking for a shortcut. Someday you will turn back and realize that everything you've achieved was initially a great challenge. And so it must be because the big difficulties often prepare ordinary people for unusual successes. Every battle appears for a reason. To give an experience or a lesson.
Source: www.sciencealert.com , www.pexels.com
