5 THINGS TO THINK ABOUT BEFORE YOU CHEAT.

in #wafrica5 years ago
Had to keep the title short, but what I'm trying to say is before you cheat on your wife, fiancee or anyone you are already legally committed to, there are certain things you have to think about for a second and evaluate if cheating is really worth it.

HERE ARE 5 THINGS TO THINK ABOUT BEFORE CHEATING.

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1. THE DAY YOU PROPOSED

Before you cheat on your partner, try to remember the day you proposed to her. Try to remember the stress you went through trying to set the moment right and give her the surprise of her life. Remember the desperation in your eyes and how devastated you would have felt if she said "No" or just walked away. Remember how accomplished and proud you felt when she said the words "yes". Please don't do it!

2. THE OATH TAKING

Before you cheat on your wife, remember that you already took an oath for better for worse, in rich and poor, in sickness and in health, till death do you path. Remember that for what its worth, this is a sacred oath because you swore with a bible (or a Koran as the case maybe) to stay with your wife till death comes knocking. These are really strong words and I don't think you wanna have the universe or karma against you. Please don't do it!

3. THE WITNESSES

Before you cheat on your wife, think about people that came to witness your marriage. Think about how they left everything they had to do and make out time just to witness your Union. Think about people that had to travel on the highway from far places and had to return to their destinations the same day. Think about people who supported your marriage with various gifts and money just to make you happy. How are you ever going to look these people in the eyes and explain the marriage is over because you cheated? Please don't do it!

4. YOUR CHILDREN

Before you cheat, think about your precious kids and how your silly action might affect their lives negatively. If you are caught, it might lead to a disconnection between you and your wife. How are these kids going to learn to be a better man and women in future having to grow up looking up to a disconnected parents? Cheating at worst could lead to a divorce. Do you really want to put these kids through growing up from a divorced family because their dad cheat? Please don't do it!

5. WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS?

You have a beautiful wife waiting for you at home, why then do you have to sleep with another woman? Most times cheating doesn't involve actual sex. It could be sex chatting, exchanging nudes, flirting with other women, etc. This starts when you no longer find your wife attractive or when you find another woman more attractive than your wife. But that is life because you can't have everyone and everything. Remember that it took you longer to decide to spend the rest of your life with your wife than it took you to decide to cheat. Please don't do it!


I know this sounds like I'm trying to say its only men that cheat in a relationship but the truth is that men are very bad when it comes to dealing with temptations that involve sex. Once the sexual urge comes, it takes a man with a strong mind to control himself. That is why I have prepared this post as keeping these in mind will help you control yourself.

THANKS FOR READING MY POST TODAY.

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Cheaters=scum even worse when you have children. Love is a choice it takes hard work and commitment. If you cheat you are weak degenerate subhuman

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Yeah you right. Thanks for your comment.

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Well said, A heathy Marriage takes work and commitment for both sides. It’s not worth the risk to put someone you love ❤️ thru the pain of cheating.. Divorce, especially if have have children. I grew up in a home with one parent because my Parents got divorced when I was just 6 months old, due to my father cheating.

Hugs dear. I'm sure things turner out good with you. Thanks for your comment

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